i am well aware that normally loosing your virginity hurts either a little or a lot. i think it's going to hurt me a lot considering i can't even use tampons. is there any way (like a good position or something) to minimize the pain? i know it's good to relax and stuff, but i have a very low pain tolerance, and i really want to have sex with my b/f i just don't want to chicken out if it hurts too much. any ideas?
The more you think about the pain, the more it’s going to hurt. And sex doesn’t hurt, or at least it shouldn’t.
The pain during first sexual intercourse is not really pain, it is actually just a slight discomfort. If you’re with somebody you love, it won’t be a problem, because it is fun and not torture.
I don’t know where you got that impression.
What causes this discomfort is breaking of the hymen. It is very elastic and it shouldn’t cause that much trouble.
Even if it does start to hurt, you can always stop with penetration and turn to other thing like cuddling. During foreplay (kissing, making out---whatever), he may slowly insert his fingers inside your vagina and maybe even try to break the hymen. That way you will see if it going to be uncomfortable or not.
If you happen to be so sensitive, you don’t have to do everything that day but may do it gradually day after day.
I reallu hope you won’t have any troubles and that you will enjoy it because that is what sex is all about. And reproduction of course but that’s not what you’re interested in right now, so use a condom!!!!!
The pain during first sexual intercourse is not really pain, it is actually just a slight discomfort. If you’re with somebody you love, it won’t be a problem, because it is fun and not torture.
I don’t know where you got that impression.
What causes this discomfort is breaking of the hymen. It is very elastic and it shouldn’t cause that much trouble.
Even if it does start to hurt, you can always stop with penetration and turn to other thing like cuddling. During foreplay (kissing, making out---whatever), he may slowly insert his fingers inside your vagina and maybe even try to break the hymen. That way you will see if it going to be uncomfortable or not.
If you happen to be so sensitive, you don’t have to do everything that day but may do it gradually day after day.
I reallu hope you won’t have any troubles and that you will enjoy it because that is what sex is all about. And reproduction of course but that’s not what you’re interested in right now, so use a condom!!!!!