I am 15 and I have this friend who i recently started talking to about my increased hornyness and the feeling of want a friend with benefits. She was very understanding and wanted to help by helping be find someone who also wanted to fool around with each other. I told her that I had no clue of how to find someone who would be interested. I never intentianally ment to ask her to fool around with me, but i did. She said she would becuz she was glad to help. I told her i didnt want her to do it to help, but to do it becuz she wanted to also fooling around. She said she wanted to. I have no romantic or physical attraction to her, only sexual.
We have not done anything yet, but i really want to.
i would appreciate some ppls opinions on this
thx
We have not done anything yet, but i really want to.
i would appreciate some ppls opinions on this
thx
Let me see... you're 15: have a (girl)friend who wants to fool around with you: have mentioned no other commitments which would preclude said fooling around (marriage etc): and want to fool around yourself.
<<mental calculations>>
GO FIND OUT WHAT THIS SEX THING IS ABOUT! just take some rubbers with you.
<<mental calculations>>
GO FIND OUT WHAT THIS SEX THING IS ABOUT! just take some rubbers with you.
I am a 42 year old male. When I was 11 years old, I was taught by an older man how to satisfy a woman. As long as you go down on her first and satisfy her the doors will open for everthing!
if she wants to help then u should follow the lead XD ... she knows that u want to fool around so she must know that it is not serious....if ur not sure that she knows...just clarify it for her...then she'll understand...if u guys mutually agree, then u can take ur horniness to another level, just remember to protect urself....i dont think that u wanna go through "im o.O pregnant" sort of thing...so go have some fun :-D
yea just make sure that she DEFINITELY does NOT love you or something.. i still dont think that this whole sex thing with her seems too good... but the main thing is ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!
if u get her pregnant, ur f*kd... and make sure she fully wants to do it with you, so she wont come back with her dad saying you raped her...
but, ...you could just get her to jack you off, or to give you a blowjob..
or you could "pleasure" her...
it doesnt always have to be SEX .. other things can be just as good..
if u get her pregnant, ur f*kd... and make sure she fully wants to do it with you, so she wont come back with her dad saying you raped her...
but, ...you could just get her to jack you off, or to give you a blowjob..
or you could "pleasure" her...
it doesnt always have to be SEX .. other things can be just as good..
I don't see anything wrong with being a friend with benefits with her.
The only things I would worry about is if she has any STDs or HIV.
That's very important to know before you decide to do anything.
Maybe get tested together?
Also, I know that sometimes friends that are just FWB and fool around for awhile tend to grow feelings for eachother. You might end up wanting to be more than just FWB and she might not or vis versa. And in those situations someone gets hurt. So just be aware.
The only things I would worry about is if she has any STDs or HIV.
That's very important to know before you decide to do anything.
Maybe get tested together?
Also, I know that sometimes friends that are just FWB and fool around for awhile tend to grow feelings for eachother. You might end up wanting to be more than just FWB and she might not or vis versa. And in those situations someone gets hurt. So just be aware.