genital herpes? :"(!!

so ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months already. Me and him been having unprotected sex. He was in a relationship of 6yrs and he says she cheated on him and thats why they got separated. My boyfriend says he went to get a physical done and got tested and he didnt have anything....yet i believe it because I never ever had any problems or std symptoms for this whole 5months weve been together...(except this week) so what happened is this , i spent the weekend over at his house..we had alot of sex friday- sun.... on saturday we did it and on sunday we did not shower till the next day, he wanted to do it but we didnt shower which i kept telling him that its nasty. So we ended up doing it again without showering :/ ...idk if bacteria got inside i dont know.

so this is what i end up having monday : during the afternoon i start feeling a bit sick and im at work i start smelling an odor, so i go to the restroom and i have a very clear excessive amount of water that STINKS very weird...so afterwork i start feeling more sick with a fever...

the next day,,,i start feeling worse..my vagina starts filling up with this clear stinky discharge,,,

its wedsnday and i still have a fever but now my inner vagina lips are very sore , red and they BURRRRRRN when i pee....i noticed i have inner bumps inside my vagina and the part where the vagina and the anus connects its irritated and swollen :'(

it hurts when i sit down...it hurts when i walk because my lips are very irritated. idk what to think ,,,i keep having excessive discharge i feel like i stink everywhere i walk by :'( i made appointments at the clinic but they are all booked until next week . i dont want to think i have genital herpes because ill freak out  and go crazy , ive been crying as it is already  . :( has anyone had this experience?