I am 25 nd super paranoid my husband and I had unprotected sex all month but I cheated on him for the first time and feel horrible. I am now pregnant and dont know what to do my husband is thrilled but I know women cant get pregnant through receiving oral sex or getting fingered but I read online that if the guy had precum and his fingers and fingers a woman she can get pregnant I dont know if the guy touched himself before but now im sooo scared.
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Hi Jenni123,
To answer your immediate question, yes. Its quite possible and very easy to become pregnant from precum if the man has touched himself and then used his fingers in you.
Although pre-cum has only around 10% of sperm in it that cum does, that is more then enough to get a fertile women pregnant, and your pregnacy proves you're fertile enough to become pregnant.
You should practice safe sex when you're with a partner you're not wanting to become pregnant by. If you're not using any contraception, such as the pill, then the man needs to be using a condom well before any sexual acts take place.
I suggest that you seriously think hard about going a head with the pregnany unless you tell you husband what you've been up to.
You need to now think about your life with a child that may possibly be not your husbands. How is that child going to cope and how will your husband react if he finds out later on.
Also, this man you've cheating on your husband with needs to know that he may be a father as well. He has a right to know.
To answer your immediate question, yes. Its quite possible and very easy to become pregnant from precum if the man has touched himself and then used his fingers in you.
Although pre-cum has only around 10% of sperm in it that cum does, that is more then enough to get a fertile women pregnant, and your pregnacy proves you're fertile enough to become pregnant.
You should practice safe sex when you're with a partner you're not wanting to become pregnant by. If you're not using any contraception, such as the pill, then the man needs to be using a condom well before any sexual acts take place.
I suggest that you seriously think hard about going a head with the pregnany unless you tell you husband what you've been up to.
You need to now think about your life with a child that may possibly be not your husbands. How is that child going to cope and how will your husband react if he finds out later on.
Also, this man you've cheating on your husband with needs to know that he may be a father as well. He has a right to know.
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Hi jenni123,
It is very, and i mean very, rare that you could have gotten pregnant from pre cum while being fingered. I am sure you know all about protection, you are a big girl and i certainly won't lecture you on safe sex.
The chances of this baby being the "other" guys is very low.
Okay, so you made a mistake and again i will not rub your nose in it, as you did not come here to be scolded.
Pull your thoughts together for a minute and re trace your steps. Do you remember where you were in your cycle when you were involved with this other guy? Even as i ask you this question, i am seriously in doubt that this is the "other" guys baby.
So now is the concience issue. You slipped up once, right? Do you feel it necessary to bring this to your husband? Is the other guy going to start some trouble? Is this a one time deal where you can try to forget about it?
You know, there is not a single person alive who hasn't slipped up once or twice in their lifetime. Have your baby hon, and be happy with your new family and please don't think about not going on with this pregnancy, tho i do realize you must do what is best.
It is very, and i mean very, rare that you could have gotten pregnant from pre cum while being fingered. I am sure you know all about protection, you are a big girl and i certainly won't lecture you on safe sex.
The chances of this baby being the "other" guys is very low.
Okay, so you made a mistake and again i will not rub your nose in it, as you did not come here to be scolded.
Pull your thoughts together for a minute and re trace your steps. Do you remember where you were in your cycle when you were involved with this other guy? Even as i ask you this question, i am seriously in doubt that this is the "other" guys baby.
So now is the concience issue. You slipped up once, right? Do you feel it necessary to bring this to your husband? Is the other guy going to start some trouble? Is this a one time deal where you can try to forget about it?
You know, there is not a single person alive who hasn't slipped up once or twice in their lifetime. Have your baby hon, and be happy with your new family and please don't think about not going on with this pregnancy, tho i do realize you must do what is best.
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yes i slipped once and feel awful the guy and i fooled around on the 9th i was ovulating the 6th and had sex that day with my husband we were trying to conceive. I spoke to my best friends mother who has been a gyn for 30 years and she is sure its my husbands.
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