I'm 19 and fairly new to sex. I've had sex multiple times, but we mostly just do foreplay kinds of things. I've never had an orgasm, which I've read is normal for my age so I'm not too concerned. Although, when he fingers me I feel like I'm going to pee. I can't relax enough to enjoy it, because I'm terrified of peeing on him. Almost every time he fingers me TONS of liquid comes out. Like a small water balloon has burst. Is that normal even though I didn't orgasm? And last time he fingered me really hard and with 3 fingers and I bled during and after. Should I be worried?
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Hi. What it seems like your experiencing when you feel the need to pee when being fingered is probably female ejaculation commonly known as squirting.
You could try taking a pee before you start because then you know your bladder is going to be empty and if you feel the urge to pee you know it won't be urine, don't worry about letting yourself go as it is a turn on for a guy when a girl does that and because you hold back that is probably why you can't enjoy it.
When you say a lot of liquid comes out do you mean from your vagina entrance or your urethra?
The bleeding from your last time could of been from your hymen tearing fully that's all, next time just put some old towels down on the bed and lay on them then just relax let yourself go and enjoy it and I bet our orgasm :-)
You could try taking a pee before you start because then you know your bladder is going to be empty and if you feel the urge to pee you know it won't be urine, don't worry about letting yourself go as it is a turn on for a guy when a girl does that and because you hold back that is probably why you can't enjoy it.
When you say a lot of liquid comes out do you mean from your vagina entrance or your urethra?
The bleeding from your last time could of been from your hymen tearing fully that's all, next time just put some old towels down on the bed and lay on them then just relax let yourself go and enjoy it and I bet our orgasm :-)
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