I really need some advice on this. My husband likes to have sex often. I will even say he is very generous and wants it maybe twice a week. My problem is I have a lot of stomach problems that I got from my mom. i.e lactose intolerant, food intolerances, irregular. I've tried Activia, which works very well. The problem is, I am always so bloated or constantly going to the bathroom. My husband is always trying to rub on me and try to get me to have sex. With my stomach turning inside due to gas, diarrhea, etc, I can't make myself get in the mood. I know this is very odd, but that's what I deal with. Sometimes, we may go a month without sex due to my stomach issues. He has talked to my mom and she told him she was the same way. She told him you don't want someone on top of her when her stomach is bloated so bad she looks pregnant. And having sex with gas bubbles is the worst! What should I do? How can I get my husband to understand that I still desire him, but it's uncomfortable to have sex in this condition? And yes, sometimes we may have to go a month before I can perfom again. :-( >:( ?
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How long did you date before you married him? How often did you have sex with him before marriage? If you can not match you husbands sex drive. It is not that he does not love you. But he will cheat on you. So my advice is to do more oral and more quickies.
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It is ridiculous to tell her that her husband WILL cheat on her. If she has stomach problems now, you just added to it by putting something else to worry about in her head. Man oh man, i can't beleive some of the comments that come up.
So Dear Hopeless, ignore Chiman's so called advice!!!
Have you seen your Doctor? There are many medications that you could be taking that will make you feel better. I understand what you are going thru. Talk to the Pharmicist at your favorite Drug Store, i am sure he can suggest something over the counter for now. Remember, back in our mom's time there wasn't to much stuff on the market to ease such issues, today is different.
There is so much you can do for your hub to help him sexually. If his sex drive is high, you could do anything and he would love it. Lay on your back in bed and have him straddle your face. Give him a blow job this way. This position frees up your hands so you can manipulate his boys and play with his nipples and there is no pressure on your stomach. Let him cum in your mouth if it doesn't bother you, or when you feel his penis start to quiver, he is getting ready to cum, let him go on your boobs. This may turn you on to the point where you forget you have a stomach ache.
I know you don't feel well, but sometimes you sort of have to push thru it.
You two can even do a little of the old "69", this way you can get a little pleasure as well.
You really must see a Doctor. If you are lactose intolerant, you know you have to stay away from dairy products. Don't slam a glass of milk before bed. Stay away from the foods that you know for sure that you just can't tolerate. Do you have IBS? There is medication for that as well. Stop making yourself suffer. The more uncomfortable you are, the more uncomfortable your marraige will get.
So, if you read some of the "helpful" info from here and if it sounds a little over the top, it probably is. Focus on replys that sound like they make sense to you.
Good luck to you and come back to let us know how your doing with this.
So Dear Hopeless, ignore Chiman's so called advice!!!
Have you seen your Doctor? There are many medications that you could be taking that will make you feel better. I understand what you are going thru. Talk to the Pharmicist at your favorite Drug Store, i am sure he can suggest something over the counter for now. Remember, back in our mom's time there wasn't to much stuff on the market to ease such issues, today is different.
There is so much you can do for your hub to help him sexually. If his sex drive is high, you could do anything and he would love it. Lay on your back in bed and have him straddle your face. Give him a blow job this way. This position frees up your hands so you can manipulate his boys and play with his nipples and there is no pressure on your stomach. Let him cum in your mouth if it doesn't bother you, or when you feel his penis start to quiver, he is getting ready to cum, let him go on your boobs. This may turn you on to the point where you forget you have a stomach ache.
I know you don't feel well, but sometimes you sort of have to push thru it.
You two can even do a little of the old "69", this way you can get a little pleasure as well.
You really must see a Doctor. If you are lactose intolerant, you know you have to stay away from dairy products. Don't slam a glass of milk before bed. Stay away from the foods that you know for sure that you just can't tolerate. Do you have IBS? There is medication for that as well. Stop making yourself suffer. The more uncomfortable you are, the more uncomfortable your marraige will get.
So, if you read some of the "helpful" info from here and if it sounds a little over the top, it probably is. Focus on replys that sound like they make sense to you.
Good luck to you and come back to let us know how your doing with this.
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Sounds like "bbfeet9" has given you great advice.
I especially agree that you shouldn't take Chiman's assumption at face value.
However, something else occurred to me to be a possibility for your two.
Have you ever tried the rear entry position? Some people call it "doggie style". I don't know if that would help you avoid the stomach pressure and gas bloating or not.
There are also some other more adventurous things you could try, if you can handle the kink. Just off the top of my head, mild bondage of your hubby.... (tying him to the bed, or upright to an upright chair) and then giving him a hand job or blow job might also be an occasional thrill for some variety.
Again, just thinking aloud here... but I think bbfeet9 has given you a good push to go speak with your doctor here.
Good luck!
I especially agree that you shouldn't take Chiman's assumption at face value.
However, something else occurred to me to be a possibility for your two.
Have you ever tried the rear entry position? Some people call it "doggie style". I don't know if that would help you avoid the stomach pressure and gas bloating or not.
There are also some other more adventurous things you could try, if you can handle the kink. Just off the top of my head, mild bondage of your hubby.... (tying him to the bed, or upright to an upright chair) and then giving him a hand job or blow job might also be an occasional thrill for some variety.
Again, just thinking aloud here... but I think bbfeet9 has given you a good push to go speak with your doctor here.
Good luck!
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