Ok so I am a virgin, first of all and so is my boyfriend.
ANd we decided to try you know,.....exploring each other a little bit more.
And I noticed that when he was near my vagina, trying to find my clitoris...it would sting when he touched a certain something. Being new beginngers i thought nothing of it, maybe he pinched me or something....
Later, he had done research on where the clitoris was located (after some trying) and found out that it was underneath the hood. (TMI?) So he procedeeded to try but it stung, i seriously ONCE again thought we were just new beginners.
Yesterday I went to take a look for my self and found some hairs in my clit, i don't know if it was from shaving, and thought that that was the reason for the slight sting and tenderness. So i removed them.
Today I checked again..but this time...when i took a closer look....
It was red, red on the side. With to white dots on it. Almost the looks of pimples. But I have had that feeling since the beginning of our exploration...so it's been this way for a month now (thinking back) i think it is.
I don't know what it is.
Some people on the internet says it could be pimples, but no one ever mentions it on the clit, only around or on the hood.
I am talking about the little pea that sticks out, and on the side of it, there is a little redness and to yellow dots.
It doesn't hurt at ALL when i walk around, run, jog, anything. Only discomfert is when i touch it, lightly.
It stings and is tender.
I want to be normal and feel pleasure like any other teen, but I can't because I don't know whats wrong with me?
Do I have STD even though we are both virgins who have never had boy/girl friends before? Do i have a cyst? operation?
Please help me, I am very confused and scared...... :-(
ANd we decided to try you know,.....exploring each other a little bit more.
And I noticed that when he was near my vagina, trying to find my clitoris...it would sting when he touched a certain something. Being new beginngers i thought nothing of it, maybe he pinched me or something....
Later, he had done research on where the clitoris was located (after some trying) and found out that it was underneath the hood. (TMI?) So he procedeeded to try but it stung, i seriously ONCE again thought we were just new beginners.
Yesterday I went to take a look for my self and found some hairs in my clit, i don't know if it was from shaving, and thought that that was the reason for the slight sting and tenderness. So i removed them.
Today I checked again..but this time...when i took a closer look....
It was red, red on the side. With to white dots on it. Almost the looks of pimples. But I have had that feeling since the beginning of our exploration...so it's been this way for a month now (thinking back) i think it is.
I don't know what it is.
Some people on the internet says it could be pimples, but no one ever mentions it on the clit, only around or on the hood.
I am talking about the little pea that sticks out, and on the side of it, there is a little redness and to yellow dots.
It doesn't hurt at ALL when i walk around, run, jog, anything. Only discomfert is when i touch it, lightly.
It stings and is tender.
I want to be normal and feel pleasure like any other teen, but I can't because I don't know whats wrong with me?
Do I have STD even though we are both virgins who have never had boy/girl friends before? Do i have a cyst? operation?
Please help me, I am very confused and scared...... :-(
Don't be scared. I'm sure you aren't the first girl to have this problem.
Talk to your parents and see a gynecologist or your family doctor. I know it's embarrassing, but that's just part of life.
Talk to your parents and see a gynecologist or your family doctor. I know it's embarrassing, but that's just part of life.
hmm my girlfriend had the same problem, well a similar... am unsure about the lump at the side i would get that checked imediatly, but the small pimples could be just bits of hard dead skin and will be able to rub off in a month or 2, but the thing about ur boyfriend is that hes just experimenting, when playing with u he should rub around the clit. if u apply presure on it direct then yes it will hurt, i googled everything when i started my relationship and it helped alot so if yous are confortable enough get him to research the correct way to do it.
This is not an online forum question. Go to your Gynecologist. This is an area of your body that is a warm, moist environment and it needs to be taken care of professionally, not diagnosed by someone at the other end of a keyboard or touchpad. And in contrast to other posts, as a guy I can say: don't ever ask a guy to do 'research' about a sexual technique. You don't know how he'll take that request and it could possibly be interpreted too liberally. He's probably a good person, but don't put temptation in his path deliberately.
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