I had vigorous sex with my guy and ended up getting cut. It hurt bad so I put hydrocortisone on it thinking it was just a rash. I think the hydrocortisone had expired. A few days later I noticed red bumbs on my bum and a few in my lower outer lips. I'm freaking out. Spoke to my man he's away and he went to the dr and was told he had a uti and staph infection. We seem to have identical symptoms. Please help.