hii im 14 years old and i have tried making myself cum alot of times, but i dont know how to?

Probably lying down is best, perhaps in a bath?

Be relaxed. Somewhere where you won't be disturbed.

By fingering, do you mean inside your vagina? or clitoral?

Also are you a virgin, and is hymen important to you? Where are you from? Are there any religious/cultural implications? These may affect appropriate responses to you.

 

Firstly, to assist you go to the drug store and purchase a tube of female KY Jelly.

Then put some on your clit and start in a circular motion to rub your self. As you start to feel something , go a little faster. You must be laying down.

If you can then put your other finger into your vagina and push it in and out while you are rubbing your self it may help. Therefore you will be using both hands.

Let me know

bokkie23 wrote:

yeahdard wrote:

hii im 14 years old and i have tried making myself cum alot of times, but i dont know how to? ive been fingering myself for along time, is it better to sit down or stand up? what do you suggest?

Firstly, to assist you go to the drug store and purchase a tube of female KY Jelly.
Then put some on your clit and start in a circular motion to rub your self. As you start to feel something , go a little faster. You must be laying down.
If you can then put your other finger into your vagina and push it in and out while you are rubbing your self it may help. Therefore you will be using both hands.
Let me know

what if i dont have jelly or cant get it/

You can use saliva.

If your vagina is wet, use some of the vaginal lubrication.

If you penetrate your vagina with your finger, you may, if you're not careful, rupture your hymen (if it is not already ruptured). See my earlier post.

You may PM me with more information (as above) if you need more tips

Hope all goes well

i think u need to sit down n enjoy it i can show u better than telling u