how can i lose my virginity?

Hi

The term losing your virginity is associated with having sex with a partner.

Being gay or straight does not matter as taking part in a sex act for the first time that involves penetration of the vagina or anus would be considered losing one’s virginity.

If the penetration is only for a few seconds it could still be considered as losing your virginity.

So basically taking part in sexual intercourse with someone of the opposite sex or the same sex male or female would count in my opinion.

hellow now i have to ask u a question i mean if his penis never enters vagina,mouth,anus but he got penetrated by another penis for 3sec i just want to know if he can lose his virginity like that. 'thank you"

Hi
This is just my opinion but some people may feel that it could be considered as the loss of virginity.
Some people may think that it would have to involve completing the entire act as in climax.
The 3 second thing has me wondering if it was just two friends being curious and wanting to find out what it would feel like.
If that is the case there are arguments for yes or no, do you have to be the one that was penetrated or the one that did the penetrating to lose your virginity. The argument could go on forever with a different opinion from everyone you talk with.
I think it may be best just to go by how you feel about it, was there something wrong with trying it absolutely not, does it mean you’re gay no, and are you still a virgin go with yes.
Try not to worry about two friends being curious, if you both wanted to try it simply accept it as a bit of experimentation between friends.

hey u see like a helpful person ok when i was 12 i watched lots of porn straight. so i kinda wants to see how great would it feel so i had a friend we normally give one another hand jobs and butt jobs no penetration and no breaking then after i never liked it. but one day i try to put my penis in his butt to know how it feels. but his butt was so small after that the worst thing in my life happens to me he puts his penis in my butt for 3second and touch my g spot now what my saying is the g spot is the penis thing all the time i was saying i never had a guy in my butt so i never liked it. i say ok a guy penis in my butt can make me gay and lost my virginity but my penis never enters vagina,anus, mouth.by the way i just had a weird thing to say. when i was 6 i play with my friend too i sat on his penis but i had on a brief no skin contacts only one time. after that i never liked it again so when i reached like 10 yrs old i did it agaaiiin! in school i had two friends they were dry humping me i kinda liked it but hate it after. no skin contacts we did it only one time so i just want to know if these kinda things was normal at those.so i just want if i'm a virgin and if im gay when i was growing up i never had crush on guys nor naked guys only woman. so i'm 13 now but that thing bothers me every single day even today and everyday i always wants to commit suiside for it.and my poor parents wants to know why i'm behaving like this i told them already but they said don't worry its just a little play .and in 13 now i don't have feelings for these stupidness by the way the penis in my butt happens in 2013i don't want to lose virginity on a guy nor be in a relationship i want to marry and lose my virginity to a girl please help "thank you"

i wish i can be free to ask you any questions i will appreciate it thank you very much.

Hi Antonio
You’re going through a rough time over this for sure.
You feel guilt and shame after you and your friend do these things with each other.
You guys are doing is what many boys your age do and that is experiment with same sex relationships part of growing up is questioning and discovering your sexuality.
Doing these things does not necessarily mean you’re gay or it won’t make you gay, you will figure out your sexuality soon enough.
Your thoughts of suicide because of what you have done are troubling, if your school has a Social Worker please consider meeting with them to discuss how you feel, calling a youth support line can also help. They can help you when you are feeling overwhelmed.
It is great that you can be open with your parents and discuss how you are feeling with them and keep talking with them about what is bothering you.
There is nothing wrong with what you have done; curiosity, experimenting and doubts are all part of growing up.
It may be worth considering waiting until you’re a little older before getting into the relationship stuff. You and your friend are very close and comfortable with each other could you talk with him about how doing these makes you feel afterwards and try stopping for awhile.

thank you very much it helps but the social worker i don't think they really likes me yes but know experiment can be loss of virginity too. but i would like to know if my penis never enters vaginas anus mouths but my butt got penetrate by the guy friend i don't like it and if the penis touch the g spot for 3 seconds could that thing as losing ur virginity and i don't now but id like to who are you.if normal people answer or company happy holidays.