How can i please my girlfriend in oral sex if she doesn't co

Girls are funny beings...(will not be making sexual jokes)...

For a woman, espeicaly one that is inexperienced, they don't alway sknow how to enjoy themselves//or what feels good. Talk to your girl. ask her to tell u what feels good.

there was a time where i did that for my very first oral sex run...well...i had a great teacher and lets just say "good" rumors started to fly.

Remember this: no 2 girls are alike. what works for one doesn't work for the other. Tell ur girl to give suggestions. NOthing like being told "don't stop."

ON a side note,...hmmm no orgasms yet....

possible causes: mental on her part. guys..we're easy.. you just pull or rub..and no mater what who probably who does it..it will get off... girls need this "mental" stimulation. they can't have stress or pressing situations on their mind (ie anxiety). they need to be 100% comfortable with you to earlly enjoy themselves. this all goes back to communicaiton. Talk to her, tell her u want to pleasure her (but in more "player" terms) and find otu exactly what she likes. Chin up friend--this is the fun part.

like the other person said, its mostly a mental thing. you have to make her feel comfortable and sexy from start to finish. the best way to do this is to take your time and be sweet. start out by kissing her very passionately. kiss her forehead, her cheeks, behind her ears, her neck, her collar bones, her shoulders, down the insides of her arms, down her stomach, her sides, take your time. slowly undress her taking small breaks to softly kiss her wherever your face may be at the time, and when i say kiss i dont mean peck i mean a nice long slow tongue kiss with emphasis on the lips coming off. remember anticipation heightens the pleasure, by this time she should be going insane, just waiting for you to get to business. but you dont. after you lay her on the bed and slide her pants off, leave the panties on for a minute. starting at the toes, steadily kiss your way up the insides of her legs. through in some curve balls, keep it random. the best feeling is one you dont know is coming. with her panties still on, hover around her down there, tickling with your nose, and lips, giving soft kisses every now and then. remember at least one hand should be on her at all times, whether your riding your fingers up and down her legs, or softly slapping her chest, followed by dragging your fingers towards her pelvis. mix fast and slow, soft and hard. but always keep the mindset of pleasing her. think like a girl, they love sensuality. whatever youre doing, do it as if shes the love of your life and you want nothing more than for her to feel good. okay. so now its time for the good stuff. with both hands and in one continuous motion, grab her breasts, slide your hands down her sides, and slide off her panties. her legs will be straight so now you throw in some fire. spread both her legs open and come into her zone with a little authority and intent. shell like that. give her a few last soft kisses to each side of the inner thigh, working closer and closer. the last inner thigh kisses you should give should be just right and left of her lips. then you start what i like to call, the pleasure. start with one slow soft wet kiss right on her clitoris. followed by consecutive kisses all the way down and back up. at first keep everything soft and slow, slowly working up the speed and pressure. always have your hands on her. whether your squeezing and rubbing her feet, legs, thighs, arms, forearms, hands, breasts or sides, keep the touches smooth and sexy, and varying, switch it up. anyways ive been typing too much, you get the idea. start slow, keep it sexy, stay confident, get into a rhythm, yet with changes in melody and intensity if you know what i mean. you gotta just love it man. love that sh*t. if you love it, she will come. anyway i just wrote this infront of my girlfriend and she was tellin me "why dont you do what youre saying" haha. gotta go! XD

XD reat post...exactly right..I coildn't have said it better...this has been my way of foreplay for years...and I love it so much that I look foward to it more than regular straight sex...perfectly said and exactly right !!!!!!!!!!

This is what I would say to my boyfriend....hope it helps!

I love it when you kiss my neck and kiss my ear. Breath into my ear as you explore my breasts. Squeeze my nipples and move your way from my neck to my breasts. Tease me for a little while, kissing around my nipples until I’m begging for it. Massage my breasts firmly and then, suddenly, suck hard on my nipple while massaging the other one. Kiss me all down my body, my stomach, behind my knee, down my legs but not quite down to my vagina. Tease me, run your finger around my clit and inside my thighs. Do that thing you do that makes me shake until I can’t take it anymore and kiss me deeply and passionately.

Move back up to my breasts and continue caressing my vaginal area, do the shaking thing again. Once you have me moaning and begging you to go in, stop, kiss me deeply, and make me shake again and then at a random moment ram your finger into me and make me scream. By now I’m incredibly wet and definitely making the noises that you love. Vary the speeds and hardness of your fingering and pleasure me until you think its time for two fingers. Now enter me with two fingers while kissing me and fondling my breasts and nipples. Whisper in my ear how sexy I am and ask me exactly what you want me to do...I will tell you I am desperate for you to go down on me...and this is exactly what you wanted to do.

With a sexy smile you turn away from my lips and move your head down to my vagina. Teasingly you kiss and lick you way down my legs and around my vagina while still entering me with your fingers at random bursts. After a while you start to lick and then you enter me with your tongue. This feels amazing and drives me absolutely wild while you go down on me for a long time varying the speed and deepness. Eventually you make me climax and I lie in the bed absolutely amazed and very willing to return the favour...I push you onto your back and start to work on you.... :-D

Jesus that sounds amazing

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first give her some oral to wet her up. then stop, lick one finger(or two if itll fit without causing pain) and start to finger her. While fingering her lick her clit and rub one of her nipples. All of this must be done at once.

OMG... what that girl said.. was... gulp*** simply amazing......

Sounds super hot.

Omg the girl who wrote that do u live in Australia and wats ur number??? =)

U know. i really dont have that problem. not only ask her what she likes. But ask her if she would like to try something new. you can help her find new ways of getting her to orgasm. btw look on google and i agree with you jey1383 

really you are too frank to wrote like this.each and every girl need this type of approach only.great answer

being a woman i can ensure you that there is no woman in this world who doesnt enjoys oral sex. if you think she is not cooperative then its not because she is not pleased, its because you are not been able to please her. 

i just came