Damn..dats wat I kol discription..am gona try it on my gal...thing is she is stil shy.so hw do I mke her comforetable?
Ask her to show you where her hot spots are
I'm a girl and I hate oral sex, but okay.
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K I'm 13. And my boyfriend and I have had sex before... And when he goes down on me, he uses his tongue. And he traces the alphabet on my clitorus. It feels amazing.
wow... can you be more descriptive ? tell more ?
First of all, when looking at other answers I continually see the vulva being called the vagina. The vulva is what gives us pleasure during oral sex, not the vagina. At the top of the vulva is a fold of skin called the prepuce which is more commonly called the hood of the clitoris which is found just covered by it. The clitoris is a tiny nub of flesh which has the delicate ends of the inner labia (inner lips) attached to it. It is the human being's most sensitive object and has only one function - to give us good feelings. Under that the lips skirt around the vestibule which contains the urethral meatus (the opening for urine which is also where female ejaculate emerges from) then the vagina which is just a tube leading in to the reproductive organs. Around the vagina is the remains of our hymen and the more slender bottom end of the inner labia and about two inches or less inside the vagina on the top side is the G-spot, a slightly ridged area. Outside everything are the outer labia which enclose everything else although many women's inner labia protrude from it.
Having got that out of the way, the vagina is useless in oral sex unless your partner has a long tongue. What matters is the clitoris. However don't dive straight in. You need to prepare us with caresses and kisses on our face (yes, where the lips are), our breasts and chest, abdomen, inner thighs. Kiss, lick, feel and tell us how much you love us. Maybe after ten minutes of that you can open our legs more and go to work on the vulva.
Try to ensure you can see what you are doing and get us to part our thighs more if you can't see and that should naturally open our inner lips, bt if not then use your fingers to separate them so that your tongue can reach in to the vestibule. Also look at the hood and pull it upwards which will show you the little tangle of our clitoris which can be as small as a frozen pea when unaroused. By the time you have completed the above it should be bigger, maybe the size of a processed (canned) pea. Look how the labia are attached to it.
Now start by ensuring your tongue has a lot of saliva on it and make long licks from the vagina, over the vestibule and on to the clitoris. If we flinch to much or say it hurts then leave the hood down. Each lick should take about one and half seconds. Continue this for five or ten minutes, don't change speed or rhythm unless we ask you to. You will know it is working if our faces become flushed and our breathing gets faster.
That is the time to stop the deeper licks and concentrate on the clitoris. If it was too sensitive before it might be all right now so try pulling back the hood with your finger again. Increase your lick speed to just over one per second, just flicking over the clitoris. Now keep going and the orgasm should follow. With me, at this point I am there in about two or three minutes, but with some women you will need to continue for up to ten more minutes.
Don't rush, don't keep asking us if we are coming. Just keep the rhythm. A good book on how to get orgasms from oral has been written by Jane Tothree and Andy Macbeth. It was reviewed on my blog on 12th February 2014. If you want to see the review search my name to find me.
Good luck, keep trying, and God, isn't it fun!
Angela Goodnight
Feel sorry for you lovelyhousewife. Someone is not doing something right. Nothing is nicer than a moist tongue running from your vagina, along your vestibule and over your bare clitoris. Try again. Try relaxing. Get him to spend more time getting you in the mood. See my blog for information on a good book on the subject.
Angela Goodnight
THing is she won't she either not into who or what yor are about doing so... you need to reinvent who you are no it is okay and yes it can be done start ignoring her... while doing this do other things focus on YOU nothing else loose all thought of her and you'll be in your A game then you can make a date tell her what when and where and how things are going to go down... She won't believe what is going on. She'll Blow. The thing with women and it is not hard... is that they make you you will never make them... so the trick here is to hold out once you've got her attention your good man... she's not out doing other things or guys she'll be on to you like a hair sticks to clothes that's women for ya... and most teh time not all gals if you can't keep that personna up they leave ya for a while and if you change in that short amount of time or if she sees something AGAIN she like she'll be back harder than ever... Girls ARE HARD WIRED this way... they can't help it... Even the most lolatiest of them would be tested and will falter... leafing her wondering why she did it or how you made her which is wrong... you didn't do anything. It comes down to how well you can behave and stay focused. Focus on you but all the while keeping an open mind of everything. It's hard yes but well worth the wait and she will wait.
I am young mature male and got arousal after reading your suggestions .hahahahhaha...................... and @ inquirer, if still you cant make her cum, it would be sad and you need to visit sexologist :)