I'm 16 and in a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend and am very ready to have sex. But my hymen is so thick and the opening so small that when my legs are spread wide open you can't even see the opening unless i tug outwards in both directions. Then the opening is about as small as maybe the circumferance of a drinking straw (probably less, and this is really tugging). I obviously can't fit a tampon in and not even a pinky for it to be fingered and such. I keep hearing that trying to break it on your own with dildos and fingers can result in damage that will make sex less enjoyable in the future, which I really don't want to do. So I hear the only way to do it is to have sexual intercourse. Thus my underlying question: How can I fit a penis in there during sexual intercourse to break it if I can't even fit something smaller than pinky finger?!?
Thanks, I'm really stressed out and need a straight answer because I cannot find one. (and if im careful and gentle with a dildo at the surface will it penitrate after a while of doing it without ruining sex later on?)
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Sex won't be enjoyable but painful and uncomfortable if you don't try and use your fingers. If you really don't want to finger yourself then when having sex, make sure you put lube on his penis and you're really wet so it won't hurt as much and hopefully slide in easily. Good luck x
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Do it slowly,i did it with my girlfriend for almost a month,trying after 2days,you need to relax both of you,you shouldn't force anything,your bf should be listening to you as you guide him to correctly target where to put his pen,he shouldn't start by signing 1st ,but placing the pen correctly and enter slow by aiming the same position severally and if you like,let him caress the c.
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