Keeran,
I don't know where you live, but in the United States if you are a 14 year old and having sex with a 20 year old then the 20 year old is RAPING you. You CAN NOT CONSENT to having sex. Saying "YES" means NOTHING.
If you're cheating and he's cheating neither of you are mature enough for a relationship.
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I do live in the U.S. And he knows of my age. He came over my house a few weeks ago. I was suppose to give him head but I got scared my parents were going to come home so we just kissed, hugged, talk and he left. He is suppose to be coming over again in a few weeks so we can hang out soon. We are not in a commited relationship but he's like a best friend because I can depend on him, tell him secrets, and ask for advice about things he's been through.
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He's more than a friend if you are "suppose to give him head."
Ask him how he feels about prison, that's where he's headed.
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Well he said he's my boyfriend...it's like a friend with benefits type of thing. He's already been to jail
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You don't get it Keeran. He'll be going away for a long time if he ever touches you in a sexual manner.
IT"S RAPE, NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY because YOU ARE A MINOR.
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We've done things already and he's touched me before and I like it. I do understand but I don't want it to happen though. WE BOTH HAVE sh*t TO WORRY ABOUT!!!! :'(
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I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 17, and I'm pregnant. Don't be afraid to have sex with him, but don't let him push you either! Hold your ground too, make sure that he's really the one before you give up that special v-card to him. And also, Don't push into pregnancy at 14. I'm doing it and it's very difficult. Wait a while, you can still have a strong, healthy and loving relationship with him without a baby. If you want to have a romantic time with him, don't risk getting caught at YOUR house. And don't get caught at HIS. Go rent a small hotel room, wait for your parents to go out, then call him up. Just make sure you know when your parents are coming home and everything. i'd seriously suggest having him meet them first, it's a bit safer that way. Stay safe, use protection, get BC, and don't let him push you!
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I can't really say who "the one" is but I do want to have sex. I trust him. But I just want to be happy. And satisfied. I'm not really on the baby subject anymore
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Hey I just found out I'm five weeks pregnant. I'm super excited and nervous at the same time. Me and my boyfriend/ baby's (the 17 year old) father told my parents on Saturday. They were speechless for a sec but soon showed excitement mixed with disappointment. We started buying items and can't wait to find out the sex of the baby. I just want to be the best mommy ever. Thank you guys for the advice I appreciate it.
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There have been really smart people giving you advice on here and you totally disregarded the time and effort they have spent talking with you. Honestly, if someone wanted to, they could have reported you (yes even if you are 1 out of a billion people on the Internet). You need to be more responcible because, yes he will meet WOMAN, and won't want to have to pull your weight through life. You are HOLDING HIM BACK and you know it, you are selfish and need a therapist because you don't listen to anyone. Also, you shouldn't say your name on the Internet you should have learned that in school.
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Im 17 years old, and joining the Air Force. I lost my virginity unwilling because I was date raped at 12 and was fortunate enough to not get pregnant. Also, i did break up with him as soon as i found out he did that (he told on himself). That being said, im glad im not pregnant or my military dream would be over. Im now with a new boyfriend and hes joining also. I personally dont want kids but he wants two after we are married and settled down and been together awhile. You should really watch birth videos. You just ruined your future. Way to go kid! Good luck getting into a college!
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Oh my God. Reading this forum , which was posted over a year ago , it seems as though everyone has skimmed over the legal issues involved within her relationships. 14 x 20 is definitely illegal , not to mention him having a kid - that's not even aligned with moral ( it's kinda gross , and that relationship wouldn't work out whether he loves you or not. ) honestly , this reeks of teenage ignorance and caused me to be extremely bewildered. I am 14 , female with a boyfriend. Sex is a thing we both want to explore , but we know better than to do it unprotected and we are both prepared to wait months before we have intercourse. Honestly , I hope that by now you have matured enough to realize how naive you were 1+ year(s) ago.
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