So i just want to know how much do you bleed when you have your first time do you bleed for a long time or just a little bit cause my friend told me she didnt bleed that much
Depends from person to person. When I bled it was almost like the start of my period and thats what I thought it was because it wasn't during actual intercourse but play time. It certainly didn't last long (an hour or two) however which clued me in to what it actually was. It also didn't hurt me much at all which I found suprising as many of my friends have said that they experienced quite intense pain during their first time.
Your body will keep you in check and you'll know when to tell him to slow down or continue. Just pay attention to what your body is telling you.