I heard that it is different for everyone but it is worth it ! ! ! ! ! ! ! but first :-| u should try to forget it if u r scared so then u will get it on surprise and the pain is fast for some ppl. Getting something on surprise is better than waiting and waiting for something that might be awful but of course worth it, just a little "pinch" or not one single time u feel anything bad. Have a great time and try not to be embarrassed about ur first time :$ . Hope this helps ;-)
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sweetie i'm 16 years old and i lost my virginity when i was 15 honest truth is that it hurts for the first minute or two but after that it doesnt hurt as much and when you use the bathroom to pee u will feel a stinq until like 3 weeks or 4 weeks good luck i hope u can trust this guy because the guy i lost mine's too he was really sweet but 6 months after we had sex we broke up and honestly although we didnt stay together i dont reget loosing my virinity to him because i was very sure thats what i wantedd before i went through with it and right now i have an amazing boyfriend we've been together for a couple months now and he's really great and to tell u the truth sex with him is really amazing.! just be sure you're ready before you do anything.
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I Know EXACTLY What Your Goin Through ! I'm 15 I'll Be 16 In A Few Months . I'm still a virgin myself and Im wondering what to do an all I can think about is the pain . Cause I don't want to look like a weak ass an I'm just plain out nervous to Do it for the first time .
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there's nothing to be worry about i use to do the same thing when i was a virgin i kept thinking about the pain and everything but when it finally happen it wasn't as bad as people said it was its a bit painful but not that much.
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I know nothing about the female pain since every girl was with at least one other guy before me. :-( but I can tell you that who ever you give it up to will be part of your life forever. You can forget partners 2 through whatever, but the first will always be your first. Sex is great, but think about years later if you can have your mate meet your ex's or not. No guy really likes meeting his girl's ex's and knowing that he was "the one" or has done things with you that he hasn't. Just information. Oh, and hymen or not, put a towel down for the first time. Even with no blood, your fluids will mess up the sheets. Towels can be managed easier than sheets. Relax and enjoy, when you are sure you are ready.
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noo , it doesnt hurt like too much , pain may join in during it . but as you just keep calm and just relax you wil be jusst fine ! :-D
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i am 12 and i would like have dreams about having sex but im afraid im going to get pregenat or have dieasess if i do it. also should i like try to break hymen by wearing tampons or shouldi just wait til im older and aslo im scared that blood will come while doing it i wanna ask my docotor but my parents are like so strict bout it what should i do should i wait or do it next year wen im 13 or way older??? :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :!:
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when the guy breaks your hymen get him to do it fast. thats what i did to my gf it hurts but not for long
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im about the same age and i just had sex for the first time with my bf and it didnt hurt at all my friends thought it wasnt true and thought i was lieing to them bt it didnt hurt at all but i also play alot of sports so my hymen might have rubbed away bcause it can do that if you play alot of sports so it doesnt always hurt to lose ur virginity!!!
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molly95 wrote:
well I am still a virgin and I am considering it too. I am 15 and have been with my boyfriend for 8 months but anyway enough about that all I know is that he likes is shaven apparently it's better? I don't really get that but hey:L also boys round school say shaven is better so I'd go for that bet:) but ask your Boyf what he wants as it will benefit you both in a way...
theoriginalbarbie wrote:
hunni, it will hurt the first time, however after it shouldnt hurt anymore and you should both be able to enjoy it!
i am a 16 and my boyfriend is 17 and he had sex 2 times already and im still a virgin but we want to take our relationship further.as in having sex.but i dont know how to prepare myself for that.i dont have a mom so i cant talk to anyone about this.i need to know how to prepare myself for this. do i shave down there?do we talk it out first?im so scared and nervous.but i know this is what i want.
someone help me please. :cry:
well I am still a virgin and I am considering it too. I am 15 and have been with my boyfriend for 8 months but anyway enough about that all I know is that he likes is shaven apparently it's better? I don't really get that but hey:L also boys round school say shaven is better so I'd go for that bet:) but ask your Boyf what he wants as it will benefit you both in a way...
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lol ahh I was 13 when I lost mine.. It hurt so much I cried, and I have a high tolerance for pain. But really I regret it, I wish I would have waited for my bf I have now, we plan to get married and even tho we have sex I would have loved for him to have been the only man I was ever with. Seriously I'm a wild child but I really think waiting is best..
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hello, I was on older when I lost my virginity the first time. I was focused on my studies instead. If you are with the one that you feel that he loves you and you love him it takes a lot of thought and you have to think about the consequences if you do end up pregnant. You can get pregnant with using protection. It does hurt the first time and the few times after that but the key is to be relaxed and make sure it does not lead to sex right off. I really advise you to wait until you are a lot older but if you do decide to then make sure you and him are both on protection. You are very young to think of having sex for the first time. The best thing is for you to talk to your mother, or another adult that you can trust to give you guidance. I just wish you a lot of luck in making your decision. I am glad that I lost mine when I was a lot older.
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hi everybody i waz reading ur responses and what about if you wer raped wen u wer younger and u are scared to even try having sex becuz u think it going to happen again. Everytime i see a man i think to myself is he really the one is he the one that i want to lose my virginity is he the whos going to love me the rest of my life is he the one thats going to be with me from good to bad is he going to give me unconditional love and most of all do i trust him and do i want to %-) :'( :$
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uhmm well im a young girl :$ nd im Not planning on hvein sex anytime soon but i jst wanna know does it really hurt nd decribe how it feels so that can give me another reason to not do it......i hve more sense to even do that now because i know no boy nd his paw can make me hve sex at this age i am cuz to many teens nd kids r hvein sex nd need a tlk to lyk wat im askin for now :-D
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