Let see still dating the same boy for over a year, and i am only fourteen and i completely want to go all the way. He is something i am positive over, and i know he will be my first. I just need to know what i can do besides birth control or condoms, like is there a certain time where its safer then others when during the month like right after your period or, something that makes it even safer to have sex.
You all may say i am to young and crazy, but when you love someone so much and want to be that much more connected with them why not give it a try?
Thanks
kaboom!
You all may say i am to young and crazy, but when you love someone so much and want to be that much more connected with them why not give it a try?
Thanks
kaboom!
Yep your young but since we're not likely to stop you use both birth control & condoms as well as doing some foreplay (being touched turned on wet) and try to take it slow and tell him to stop if it starts to hurts.
Other then that wait until your sixteen.
Other then that wait until your sixteen.
Ms. kaboom
This is an important plan you are thinking of, and a quick posting is not the proper thing to do to you, so here is mine for you;
OK you are at the age that sex is within the age limits for having intercourse, your criteria is a good one, being with some over a year, most of us (like myself are like a week or two, then "lets spend the night together" Rolling Stones.) Does he know about your plan?
YES - there is a better time than the right time, as you may become pregnant at any time if you are having "full periods" which you ovulate (releasing a egg) the right is after you have finished bleeding, and wait until a next weekend to arrive, so not to make a mess of the area, him & yourself, that can be a BIG turn off for the boys,
Rule for Intercourse; some important ones
1) Proper place; the beach sand or grassy woods are not the place.
2) Having the proper time to enjoy both of you, a weekend at a friends' place gone for the days or a summer/weekend house.
3) Take your time, don’t rush and just get it over with.
4) Be protected with at least a condom or two (& birth control pills)
5) Have the nervousness taken care of; by mostly the other rule have been followed, and the thinks needed for comfort.
6) Shower before & after, to smell clean for the other person, and your parents, when you get home.
7) Set the rules; on if you wish to stop, means to STOP!!!!
Try using some lube,
Girl; the ONLY lube for you is a water based lube. "KY" is name brand but at the cheap discount stores, they have "personal lube" in tubes in the shopping area with the tampons. Use as much lube as needed to help with the friction if you have not become "wet" on your own, & apply often with the use of condoms.
Birth control can be a diaphragm & jelly (by a Dr. only), the jelly alone, (found at the same place as the lube) condoms for him & the jelly for you, and with birth control pills, may be a longer time to wait if you go on the birth control pills now.
Now make an appointment at your family Dr. or family planning clinic, and take him along for the information on birth control also, he will need to know this. the exam & pills are for free of charge at the clinic, you may get them without your parents’ knowledge or permission.
Now you are making that big forward step and into Adulthood by this and you cannot go back or take it back......but you have thought of that already.
So if you wish to continue this before you start, post your question, & all of us will give you our input again.
RT
The web sites below are approved to post by Kick C to help out you with more information, please read through them.
http://www.puberty101.com/p_pubgirls.shtml
http://myvag.net/
http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/articleslibrary.jsp
http://mymonthlycycles.com/home.jsp
This is an important plan you are thinking of, and a quick posting is not the proper thing to do to you, so here is mine for you;
OK you are at the age that sex is within the age limits for having intercourse, your criteria is a good one, being with some over a year, most of us (like myself are like a week or two, then "lets spend the night together" Rolling Stones.) Does he know about your plan?
YES - there is a better time than the right time, as you may become pregnant at any time if you are having "full periods" which you ovulate (releasing a egg) the right is after you have finished bleeding, and wait until a next weekend to arrive, so not to make a mess of the area, him & yourself, that can be a BIG turn off for the boys,
Rule for Intercourse; some important ones
1) Proper place; the beach sand or grassy woods are not the place.
2) Having the proper time to enjoy both of you, a weekend at a friends' place gone for the days or a summer/weekend house.
3) Take your time, don’t rush and just get it over with.
4) Be protected with at least a condom or two (& birth control pills)
5) Have the nervousness taken care of; by mostly the other rule have been followed, and the thinks needed for comfort.
6) Shower before & after, to smell clean for the other person, and your parents, when you get home.
7) Set the rules; on if you wish to stop, means to STOP!!!!
Try using some lube,
Girl; the ONLY lube for you is a water based lube. "KY" is name brand but at the cheap discount stores, they have "personal lube" in tubes in the shopping area with the tampons. Use as much lube as needed to help with the friction if you have not become "wet" on your own, & apply often with the use of condoms.
Birth control can be a diaphragm & jelly (by a Dr. only), the jelly alone, (found at the same place as the lube) condoms for him & the jelly for you, and with birth control pills, may be a longer time to wait if you go on the birth control pills now.
Now make an appointment at your family Dr. or family planning clinic, and take him along for the information on birth control also, he will need to know this. the exam & pills are for free of charge at the clinic, you may get them without your parents’ knowledge or permission.
Now you are making that big forward step and into Adulthood by this and you cannot go back or take it back......but you have thought of that already.
So if you wish to continue this before you start, post your question, & all of us will give you our input again.
RT
The web sites below are approved to post by Kick C to help out you with more information, please read through them.
http://www.puberty101.com/p_pubgirls.shtml
http://myvag.net/
http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/articleslibrary.jsp
http://mymonthlycycles.com/home.jsp