My bf also having a lot of sex experience, hence I do not like to tell him that I am a virgin. I am worry he will know if I bleed. Any way to make me not going to bleed the first time sex?
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I doubt very much that you can avoid bleeding the first time you have sex unless your hymen is already broken (which is possible because the hymen can be broken in a variety of ways which aren't always sexual e.g. Horse/ bike riding. You really need to tell your boyfriend that you're a virgin otherwise he's going to rush in like he's running into to battle and hurt you more than he has to and at this point you will not be able to hide it from him anyway.
If he cares about you then he will respect you and I'm sure all he would want is to make you happy and not judge you based on your lack of sexual experience. With his experience, he will know all of the tricks to minimise pain but generally one big key is lube, more lube and yes you guessed it, more lube!!! Also he will know to take it slow.
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8 inches is above the average for men. You vagina is naturally tight. It will loosen after you have sex several times but will remain tight until you have a natural child birth. Once your boyfriend is inside you, you will relax and it will hurt less and theoretically, it will become more pleasurable and sensual.
Not all women have hymens so it may not be an issue. You hymen may have already been broken if you play sports or other rigorous activities. You may not bleed during your first time either. some women don't.
If you are worried about your boyfriend breaking, your hymen, you can break it your self on your own time with masturbation.
If your boyfriend is not willing to take it slow and respect your request, then he doesn't deserve you. If you want your boyfriend to break your hymen, you should tell him about it and have him help you. It is your choice and is ultimately up to you.
Good Luck
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I had sex when I was 13
My bfs penis was 6.2".
It wasn't too big. Like for u 19 years old. That's small!!
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im 14 and i just almost had a sex with my bf and his penis is very big and he cant go in but it still made me bleed...why???
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Im scared also because I think im pregnant because im retching in the morninng and have severe headaches pls reply thx
, lily
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Since he is so big, you must let him know that it will be your first time to prevent him hurt you too much. I can say that it is not easy for a women to handle this size, sure almost impossible for a virgin. You need to prepare for a lot of stretching pain due to his thickness.
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