Hi Guest,
Sperm can survive up to about 5 days - either of them could be the father. It depends on a number of factors, not just who came first.
You'll need a DNA test to determine paternity. There is no other way to know when you have sex that close together.
You have a duty to tell the father the truth, even if you'd rather not be with him. It's his baby too.
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I am four weeks pregnant my last period was the 23rd of October my partner has been in jail for 2years i was sleeping with some ele end of August my boyfriend came out of prison mid sept I had a period sept and no period oct now I am 4 weeks pregnant is it defo my boyfriend x
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Hi Guest,
Confirm the date of your last period? 23 October was less than two weeks ago.
Was your period on 23 October - normal?
Doctors base dates on your LMP. Why? Because most women know exactly when that was. Assuming you meant 23 September your last period started then you are just over 5 weeks along.
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Hi. I'm a 34 yr old male. I was in a relationship with my girlfriend for 8 years... The first 4 was great but the last 4 were very rocky. In the last year she started vacationing on her own (4 times in the same year) to jamaica. After her second trip I got frustrated and left... thinking something was going on.... anyway 4 months later she messages me from jamaica to tell me she was pregnant but not sure who the father is. I respect her for admitting it but also don't want to have anything to do with her. Not because she's pregnant but because I have a gut feeling that I can't trust her and she's too hard to please. I really don't want to be the father of her child. I try my best to be supportive but at times I wanna flip her the bird. If this child is mine I want to be a part of the childs life but if not I don't see the point. How do I treat her moving foward?
She also continuously keeps asking for sex. Once before she told me she was pregnant and very close to her proposed conception date.... ladies please advise.
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did you find out who the father was? I had sex with Guy 1 on June 1, 2014. He didn't ejaculate at all n it was only a 3 minute sexual activity. Then I had sex with Guy2 on June 10, 2014. I came on my period the very next day which was June 11, 2014. On September 29, 2014 I went for my first ultrasound and it said I was 16 weeks and 3 days. I continued to have sex with Guy 2 because he is my boyfriend who is mostlikely to be the father? My lmp by my ultrasound says June 6, 2014. But I know it was June 11, 2014. I'm scared
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I have the same situation . My period was on 1st Nov,14 - 5th Nov,14 and i had sex with my ex bf on 12th Nov,2014 and then i had sex with my current bf on 14th Nov & 15th Nov,14
And now i come to know i'm almost 5 week pregnant . Can anyone help me or any suggestion on how can i find out the baby father .
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Hi Barbiedoll,
Doctors base your dates on your LMP. About 5 weeks would be correct for a period that started on 1 November. You didn't get pregnant then though. That would happen after ovulation which normally occurs between about days 11 -16 of your cycle, so 11 November to 16 November. Sperm can survive up to about 5 days.
Either of the two men could be the father. You will need a DNA test to determine paternity. There are non-invasive methods now available that can be done using your blood with no need to obtain a sample directly from the baby. You need to be at least 9 weeks along before that can be done though. Look up "non-invasive dna test" for more details.
Good luck.
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Thanks Medi-Can so there's no chance of knowing the father before baby is born ? :(
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Yes you can. Look up "non-invasive DNA test" and you'll get results. All you need to do is provide a blood sample. The men will need to also provide a DNA sample, usually a swab.
As long as you are more than 9 weeks pregnant this is an option and you will know for sure who the father is before birth.
Good luck.
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Hi everyone I just found out yday I'm 5 months preg I went with my friend the one I slept with but we always used protection and the other guy I slept with was on the 30 of july n contraception started mid aug bt the nxt couple hours took the pill afta I slept with him.I'm so scared dnt knw wt 2 do cz the 2nd guy nw wntz 2 take care of bby. N me he still wnts 2 do a test to c if the child ez his or not.I'm so scared plz help guys
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Hi Jerusha,
5 months pregnant puts your last period around 12 July. You'd ovulate sometime between about days 11-16 normally and the egg is viable for up to 48 hours. It is possible you conceived on 30 July.
Unfortunately no form of birth control is 100% effective and neither is the "morning after" pill.
You can take a DNA test now. Look up "non invasive DNA testing." You will need to provide a blood sample, they can determine the babies DNA from it, and your partner will also need to provide a sample.
It's not cheap however.
Good luck.
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hi I Am Pregnant And I'm A Little Confused On Somethings...I Had Sex Before My Period My Period Was August 18 or 19 And It Only lasted For about 2 or 3 days...It Usually Comes At The End Of the Month around the 25th or 27th and Would Last 7 days...I Then Had Sex Sept 5th and took 2 Clear Blue Test On Sept 23rd That Said I was 3+ weeks and to add an additional 2 weeks which makes 5weeks and the instructions said I would have to go to the doctor to figure out if I am more then That...Did I Get Pregnant Before Or After My Period?...Please Helpp
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Hi i am pregnant of 7 months and a half now and i am not sure who is the dad of my baby i had my period june 2 to the 6 then had sex with my boyfriends at the time then he cheat on me with a other girl on the 13 so i was mad and i did the same with a other guys and i sleep with the other guys the 13 and the 28 of june my due date is march 9 really hope that the child is my first boyfriends cause the other guys was just a one night stand for revenge please help should i do a dna test after the baby is born....... i been lonely in my pregnancy and i am scared :
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Hi Linda,
I replied to your other posts. You need to provide more info. When did you have sex and with whom? When was your period in July?
You can have bleeding if you are pregnant.
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