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Working from LMP assumes cycle of 28 days. It would seem, by your ultrasound dates, that your cycle is 33 days. That is why ultrasound is more reliable.

The likelihood is that the guy who ejaculated in you is the more likely father, but I am not convinced that the guy on 10th March did not send any sperm into you. The paper would have to be more than just wet if he ejaculated fully into it. You would likely have been fertile 7-12 March.

However, the positive test result on 21 March is rather early, but just possible with conception on 12th. More likely would be a test when conception was on 10th. Your next scan might be more accurate.

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You think my boyfriend who had no condom I the father the other guy had a condom? That is my main concern.
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Your sentence isn't quite complete, but the unprotected sex is the most likely cause of your pregnancy.

I have looked again at your posts (as far as I can identify which are yours), and from the information provided, I would still think your boyfriend is the father, and the due date is incorrect. The dates you have given don't seem to tally up.

I understand your concern, and that, of course, is the risk you take when you are unfaithful. However, if you had engaged in other sexual activity (maybe mutual masturbation) there may have been an opportunity for sperm to enter your vagina at a fertile time. But you haven't indicated whether this occurred. Nevertheless, a review of the baby's due date would be advisable. Otherwise, you may have to take a paternity test as the only means to be sure.

  1. When is your next scan due?
  2. Have you taken a Clearblue test (or equivalent) with pregnancy length indicated?

I hope this helps a bit more.

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No masturbation or anything occurred. Condom from start to finish. My next scan is supposed to be on June 7th but I'm in the process of switching obgyn Drs. And no I did not know there are pregnancy test that determine weeks? Can you tell me what kind to get? I'm thinking my ultrasound dating is incorrect also. And also with my first child I had a vaginal ultrasound early on. That is what i was expecting to get this time because I thought they did those for dating but they did the abdominal ultrasound instead. Could that be why it was off a little?
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And also thank you for your reply makes me feel better by saying it most likely occurred with the unprotected sex. That's what my family and friends have been telling me. But coming from a stranger makes the opinion better. Thank you very much. I'm pretty sure it occurred with unprotected sex also. My mind is my worst enemy I've always been a very pessimistic person. The protected incident occurred one time and then the unprotected happened later that night n days after. My fiancee the ONLY one that i have had unprotected sex with.
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It is best to wait for your June (3-month) scan. And yes, an early vaginal scan is reckoned to be more accurate and give more detailed information than the abdominal.
There is a Clearblue digital test with weeks estimation, but that only shows 1-2, 2-3 or 3+ weeks since conception, and that would be too late for that now.
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Pleased to have helped. When you get your 3-month scan results, we'll probably have a much better idea. But as that is over a week away, you may have to remind me of the details. This topic has so many different anonymous posters!
Your mind is going to be active, and it may be your conscience at work. Why do you have sex with guys who are not your fiance? And both in the same day! Does he have sex with other girls? That could hold issues for your marriage later on, so it would be good to ensure your relationship is robust as soon as possible.
Take care.
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We have been going through alot I'm not sure if he has ever cheated on me. I love him I do I made a mistake I'm glad im smart to be protected. I see alot of people on here had unprotected sex with multiple partners I know it would be alot worse that way. I agree with you it is slot of guilt. My fiancee and I argue spot or was he's throw things and talk down to me calling me awful names. Getting mad over the dumbest things and start degrading me and that's what led to it. Basically I was receiving attention I felt like I was not getting that from my fiancee he has anger issue's. I'm not trying to excuse myself for what I did. But that is what led up to it. Excuse my language but being told that your. Piece of sh*t lazy fat b***h is not the best feeling in the world and being told that I'm the worst person on earth like I said plus breaking and throwing objects. Then leaving me to cry :(

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As i said I'm switching Drs tho I'm supposed to know if the switch is official at the end of this week. I will keep you posted.
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I'm so sorry to hear of your treatment. I would never call a woman names like that, and those names are especially cruel when said to someone who is supposed to be loved. If you are receiving treatment like that now, and not getting appropriate attention, then it is highly likely that it will not improve after marriage, but rather get worse. It sounds as though you would be far better off without him. Your love for him is probably because you have had so much sex with him, as sex is a bonding activity. Please be very careful.
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Yes, please keep me posted.
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I've been with him for 8 years that why it's so hard. I'm pretty sure its his baby bc of the use of a condon. I go see my new docter Monday. But not sure if I'll have an ultrasound at new docter I'm just going to ask the docter why doesn't my conception dates match up I was on my period during the day 18-24th. That would be my timeframe of conception based on my due date I did an online conception calculator. Unless I conceived during my period me and my fiancee did do something right before my period also or either ultrasound is off.
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Yes, it would be hard.
It will be interesting to hear the doctor's opinion.
Take care
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Can you please update me on who the father is because right now I'm in the same exact position you were and I don't know who the father could be
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As the guest poster posted over 7 years ago, I doubt whether she is still monitoring this thread.

If you want help you will need to give your own particular circumstances with your own individual dates and cycle data as no-one can really be "in the same exact position".

But please include a name to identify you from the other posters in this thread.

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