i cannot find my gspot!!!!

Hey, you're 14! It's not unusual for much older women to not have any idea where their g-spot is, and some even eagerly debate whether the female g-spot exists at all. It's there, mind you — a few inches into your vagina, on the side of your belly button. But you don't need to find your g-spot to have a good orgasm. Most women really find that their clitoris is ultimately the biggest source of pleasure, even if they know where their g-spots are. Just experiment with different techniques, really get in the mood, and you will definitely have an orgasm at some time.