Before he asked me, I was just fine, I was able to flirt with him and hang out with him. We even held hands and stuff. But now that we're officially a 'thing', I get sick to my stomach and I no longer want to hold hands with him. And even worse, he's my Section Leader in band and I was wanting to join the Leadership team next year. But now that people know that we're a couple, I'm feeling more and more uncomfortable around him, and I've even gotten to the point of becoming violently ill when thinking about seeing him. I don't NOT like him. He's one of my good friends, and this isn't the first time that this has happened to me. Earlier this year, I went throgh the same thing with another guy and ended up breaking up with him because I just couldn't handle the sick feelings that I had around him. I'm 17 years old and I'm tired of not being able to date people because of this feeling. Help me please, or even better, is there anyone else that this happens to?