i just met a girl that is perfect for me and i am struggling to ejaculate when we are having sex, and i stay hard for a long time, and its great for my girlfriend that i'm hard for hours but not great for me, and i just cant finish and ejaculate, why is this happening to me because its getting very embarrassing, and what can i do, and is there a cure.??
Hi Guest,
Are you using a condom? Some can reduce sensation significantly.
It could be an anxiety issue. Are you worried about anything like pregnancy?
Can you ejaculate in front of her, masturbating? You might just need to "break the ice."
Don't focus on this. It can make it worse. Just keep trying.