Hey, so I finally decided I would try to masturbate because everyone says it feels amazing and I thought I'd give it ago but, it didn't seem to work and I don't know why. I tried both shower head masturbation and fingering and neither were successful.
My first problem is I can't seem to get turned on. I'm a virgin and have never done anything sexual. I've never been turned on before. I tried several things to turn myself on though, I rode the arm of an armchair, I read smut and even played with my clitoris. But none of it gets me turned on! I tried clitoris stimulation and when I touch my clit it did feel nice, but that's it, nothing else happened and sometimes when I touched and played with it I didn't feel anything from it at all. Now this could be because I haven't properly located it but I'm pretty certain I have, I've checked with a mirror and compared it to diagrams and I'm definitely in the right place so why doesn't it work?
When trying shower head masturbation, it felt nice but again that's it. It felt nice where the water was touching my vulva and clit but it was very unsatisfying and I didn't feel anything internally, and definitely didn't come anywhere near orgasm.
When fingering, I played with my clit and sort of teased myself but I didn't get wet or feel anything. I then proceeded to finger myself, I put one finger all the way in and that was it. It didn't feel nice or anything really so what am I supposed to do after that to make it pleasurable? I tried pumping it but it actually hurt and taking my finger out also hurt a bit so?????
Thank you for any advice :)
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