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Hey :D I had unprotected sex on the 5th of May 2013. My last period ended on the 3rd of May 2013. I do have an irregular cycle :(. I have taken two home pregnancy tests. Both were the clear blue digital tests. They both were negative. The first test was taken 15 days after having sex and the last one was on the 26th of May. I'm really freaking out since I havnt had my period yet.

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your probably just irregular you should go to the doctors for a blood test just to be 100%accurate
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Thanks :D the thing is I don't want my parents to know they will kill me for sure.
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How old are you? Can you or a trusted friend drive? Do they have planned parenthood where you live, at a place like a health department?
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Hey I'm 18 I live in South Africa. Yes I can drive and no there's no planned parenthood facilities here :(.
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I say go to your doctor, and ask that he/she keep it between the two of you. If you have irregular periods anyway then it could just be that. Have you got checked to see what your irregularity is coming from?
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Hey, thanks for replying. Yeah, I have gotten checked out at the start of the year and I was told its my weight. I missed a whole month at the start of the year but I wasn't sexually active at the time. Since then I have lost weight. :I and it appears I've lost my mind as well by doing something so irresponsible.
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It happens, are you still with him? Did you love him? Teenagers will make mistakes, that's just something they do. I'm sure you're probably and not pregnant. If you're overly stressed, that will sometimes cause you to miss a period or two as well. Can you talk to your mom at all about it? For me, it was so embarrassing, like I knew she would understand, and not judge me, but I just didn't know how to start it, but eventually I got the courage and just did it!
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Yep I love him, he knows about what's happening and says he didn't c*m in me. But there's no way for sure for him to know. My mums pretty strict since I just started university :I so she thinks I'm not responsible which I have now proven I'm not lol. :D atleast, your mum was approachable about your situation. :I my mother will fake a heart attack lolz :I.
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Then you shouldn't feel guilty about your decision, I agree, you're still young, but you are old enough to make your own decisions. Just sit her down and talk with her about it, I'm responsible, but stuff happens, and if you're pregnant, there is a reason for it! (:
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Thanks for the excellent advice. I will speak to her soon about it. I do agree if it is meant to be it will happen. My mother took 6 years to fall pregnant with my other brother :I and that was back in the day.
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You're welcome! Just try not to keep stressing over it, go to a doctor, he/she will be able to tell you exactly what's wrong!
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I will this weekend :D thanks
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You're very welcome!!
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I have taken two tests, and they are negative, but my belly is moving! I even make a video of it moving! Could I be pregnant?
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