WTF ru on watching gay porn is just seeing an image so if you then closed you eyes and saw the image aswell and still get hard, this does in NO WAY MAKE YOU GAY, because it is just a fantasy you don't need to act apon it I myself am 16 now and only had a gay experience when I was 13 of sucking and getting sucked. But I was at an all boy childrens home for a year and have since been having healthy relationships with girls. Our bodies crave satisfaction and should not deny our bodies satisfaction, some people have gay sex just for satisfaction no relationship JUST SEX for a few years during puberty from 13-18 and then during 20's they get married have children and don't even look back.
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I have the same "problem" but I think it's normal.
I'm a straight guy, I just fall in love with women, I just get excited by women. Women like to see lesbian movies too, watching gay porn doesn't make you gay, after all it's sex.
Live your life easy.
I'm a straight guy, I just fall in love with women, I just get excited by women. Women like to see lesbian movies too, watching gay porn doesn't make you gay, after all it's sex.
Live your life easy.
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I am 19 going on 20, in this exact situation, gay porn, especially with young guys really turns me on. Now in real life I find myself sexually attracted to men, while emotionally attracted to women. It is a miserably confusing and difficult thing to have to live with day in and day out, I'm so glad I now know I'm not alone. To all of u struggling with the same thing as me, good luck to u, hopefully we all figure ourselves out before the secrets, guilt, and indecision destroy us, because that what I feel is happening to me
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I'm 24. I've had an addiction to gay porn since I was 11 years old. I can't enjoy straight porn at all, I've ventured into bi porn but it also doesn't do anything for me unless it two guys and girl.. I find women in straight porn to be fake, and destructive to my attraction to women in reality. I don't like to objectify women.. so perhaps that has something to do with all of it.
Society alone has told me that I'm gay, but I have never felt any true attraction to my own gender. I've had dreams and desires to find the love of my life, get married and have children with her. I've hated myself for years because of my addiction, and the world telling me that I am gay, and that my dreams will never come to fruition. Only the past year have I come to a decision to say "f**k you world, I know who I am and I know what I am, regardless of what you may want me to think!"
While I still can't say I love myself, I understand myself a whole lot more now. I know I am in no way gay, or ever could be. So no, watching gay porn doesn't make you gay. I personally HATE all porn, but still find myself watching it all too often.. and the only times I have ever stopped watching porn are when I have a girlfriend.
Anyway.. I'm glad I actually searched on this topic, after all of these years, to find I'm not the only person to have this issue with gay porn. 8-|
Society alone has told me that I'm gay, but I have never felt any true attraction to my own gender. I've had dreams and desires to find the love of my life, get married and have children with her. I've hated myself for years because of my addiction, and the world telling me that I am gay, and that my dreams will never come to fruition. Only the past year have I come to a decision to say "f**k you world, I know who I am and I know what I am, regardless of what you may want me to think!"
While I still can't say I love myself, I understand myself a whole lot more now. I know I am in no way gay, or ever could be. So no, watching gay porn doesn't make you gay. I personally HATE all porn, but still find myself watching it all too often.. and the only times I have ever stopped watching porn are when I have a girlfriend.
Anyway.. I'm glad I actually searched on this topic, after all of these years, to find I'm not the only person to have this issue with gay porn. 8-|
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Why do we watch horror films? So that we can deal with blood, gore, death, etc. without really experiencing it. It doesn't mean we are nor make us murderers, monsters, etc.
Why are we compelled to look at a road accident? Morbid curiosity, we need to be able to deal with it.
Same for this subject - it really can just be a way of dealing with the issue - and noone unless they are feral people grown up by wolves has not been confronted with the sexual preference question - people need outlet and ways to safely investigate the subject.
You disagree? Stop watching CSI, it means you are a criminal.
Why are we compelled to look at a road accident? Morbid curiosity, we need to be able to deal with it.
Same for this subject - it really can just be a way of dealing with the issue - and noone unless they are feral people grown up by wolves has not been confronted with the sexual preference question - people need outlet and ways to safely investigate the subject.
You disagree? Stop watching CSI, it means you are a criminal.
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Also (addition to the "horror film" comparison), we all have a part of us that's of the opposite sex (and all that implies). If it weren't that way, "pure males" would only be given birth to by men mating with men, "pure females" only given birth to by women mating with women. And that's kinda gay.
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I have a similar 'issue' to this so to speak. I go through stages of watching straight/gay porn. I have never felt attracted to a man in real life, and am in love with women constantly. The thought of having a homosexual experience doesn't necessarily disgust me, it's just something I wouldn't want to do.
Having studied some sociology/psychology on this topic, it does give you an insight into why we and how we relate pornography. Please do not take this as gospel truth as it's all theoretical and I am definitely no expert! BUT supposedly when we look at porn we are either taking a fetishistic view or a voyeuristic view. SO we either imagine ourselves in the context of the sex act that we are watching, or we are literally turned on by the thought of watching it from a "third party" perspective.
The way I feel about my inclination to watch gay porn at times is that its mainly a voyeuristic impulse. It's not something which I feel throws a massive amount of doubt on my hetrosexual orientation. I personally think it's more healthy to explore what you are attracted to or not. I know hands down I wouldn't be interested in having sex with another man.
here's my key dilemma though, how can I be open about this with my friends? The other night some of my friends looked on my internet history and saw some gay porn sites. I sort of riggled out of it but pretty unsuccessfully.
Having studied some sociology/psychology on this topic, it does give you an insight into why we and how we relate pornography. Please do not take this as gospel truth as it's all theoretical and I am definitely no expert! BUT supposedly when we look at porn we are either taking a fetishistic view or a voyeuristic view. SO we either imagine ourselves in the context of the sex act that we are watching, or we are literally turned on by the thought of watching it from a "third party" perspective.
The way I feel about my inclination to watch gay porn at times is that its mainly a voyeuristic impulse. It's not something which I feel throws a massive amount of doubt on my hetrosexual orientation. I personally think it's more healthy to explore what you are attracted to or not. I know hands down I wouldn't be interested in having sex with another man.
here's my key dilemma though, how can I be open about this with my friends? The other night some of my friends looked on my internet history and saw some gay porn sites. I sort of riggled out of it but pretty unsuccessfully.
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ME 2. i get so turned on by gay porn, but yet i act straight and hook up with girls. maybe it is because when we see men having sex it shows us their penis, and since we have one 2 it turns us on more
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If you've ever jacked off, then you're gay - it's holding a man's parts and pleasuring a man. Simple as that. Don't sweat the gay porn, we've all thought about it and I guess it's just an extension of jacking off.
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lol. look at you guys arguing about stuff you don't even know. though i got to hand it to the peeps who are trying to be supportive.
i'm bi, but i can't watch gay porn. i'm just not used to it, lol. when i do look at it i get turned on, but i can't imagine jacking off to it.
but hey, sigmund freud said everyone's bi in their subconscious, and theres a period of time when the conscious is bi too, then kinda "decides" whether to be straight bi or gay. i put "decides" in quotation marks cause its not actually a conscious decision, from my reading anyways.
my advice is to read the wikipedia articles on hetrosexuality (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heterosexual), homosexuality (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexual), and bisexuality (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bisexual).
then you know the deal, and i think you'll be able to figure out who you are :-)
thats how i found myself, lol.
i'm bi, but i can't watch gay porn. i'm just not used to it, lol. when i do look at it i get turned on, but i can't imagine jacking off to it.
but hey, sigmund freud said everyone's bi in their subconscious, and theres a period of time when the conscious is bi too, then kinda "decides" whether to be straight bi or gay. i put "decides" in quotation marks cause its not actually a conscious decision, from my reading anyways.
my advice is to read the wikipedia articles on hetrosexuality (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heterosexual), homosexuality (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexual), and bisexuality (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bisexual).
then you know the deal, and i think you'll be able to figure out who you are :-)
thats how i found myself, lol.
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Thats the same thing with me! It's been like that since i was 9 i usually got turned on by guy, but i like girls alot, even in real life i get turned on by some guys, but i wouldnt want to marry a guy cuz that is just so wrong and gross to me, and after i masterbate i feel like "wow why did i do this, i should be looking at stright porn", so yeah i dont know if this is a phase becuase its been goin on for 4 years and im only 13, but i always think about me with a girl not a guy, so i hope its jsut a long phase for me.
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Well i have the same problem as well, i watch gayporn and just for the feel of it, cuz after i masterbate im like "'why did i do this, why cant i masterbate to normal porn", but i always get turned on by hairy men alot, just only sexualy attracted, sometimes even in real life ive been sexually attracted to hairy men if i see their hairy, but never emotionally, i like girls and want to have a girlfriend only, sometimes i think about me having sex with a guy, like only stroking(maybe sucking), and having sex with a girl too with doing, you know everything, I probably want to experience whats it like to have sex with both genders. Im only 13 and this has been happening for a couple of years, i would never want to go out with a guy or kiss anything like that, cuz that is just wrong to me, only with a girl is right, and i do have a crush on a girl right now, no guys. I tried watching stright porn but it doesnt work for me, maybe cuz the guy is treating the girl like a toy or the girl is screaming loud all the time, and with gayporn the guys are masterbating and moaning quieter than girls so i guess thats what turns me on. So i dont know whats going on with me since i am emotionally attracted to girls only.
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lol. look at you guys arguing about stuff you don't even know. though i got to hand it to the peeps who are trying to be supportive.
i'm bi, but i can't watch gay porn. i'm just not used to it, lol. when i do look at it i get turned on, but i can't imagine jacking off to it.
but hey, sigmund freud said everyone's bi in their subconscious, and theres a period of time when the conscious is bi too, then kinda "decides" whether to be straight bi or gay. i put "decides" in quotation marks cause its not actually a conscious decision, from my reading anyways.
my advice is to read the wikipedia articles on hetrosexuality (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heterosexual), homosexuality (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexual), and bisexuality (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bisexual).
then you know the deal, and i think you'll be able to figure out who you are
thats how i found myself, lol.
I think the other answer earlier in this post that says "You decide if your gay, bi, or stright" is the better answer.
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