my bf is insisting me to hv an intercourse with him he said tht if we do ths my vigina will not lose and it will remain tight until i got a baby.... but i m not convinced ... also i m reluctant to hv ths because of being pregnent.... if he puts on a condom and discharge out of vagina will i b pregnent??????? please suggest me ways also tell me abt my bf's theory abt vigina thightness
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You're talking about two different things.
First, he's right, a woman's vagina is generally more loose after expanding to deliver a baby.
Second, if your hymen is broken, there is no repairing it. Even if he is wearing a condom, the stretching of the hymen through intercourse may rip or tear it.
If being a virgin is important to you, DON"T GIVE IN.
If he loves you, he won't press you against your will.
If he insists, drop him. He's not the one for you if he's so inconsiderate of your feelings and desires.
Anyone else want to weigh in?
First, he's right, a woman's vagina is generally more loose after expanding to deliver a baby.
Second, if your hymen is broken, there is no repairing it. Even if he is wearing a condom, the stretching of the hymen through intercourse may rip or tear it.
If being a virgin is important to you, DON"T GIVE IN.
If he loves you, he won't press you against your will.
If he insists, drop him. He's not the one for you if he's so inconsiderate of your feelings and desires.
Anyone else want to weigh in?
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Are you worried more about a tight vagina or getting pregnant? You said you want your vagina to look like a virgin after sex!!! There is no way to tell if a girl has lost her virginity just by looking at her business. (other than a doctor). If bf is trying to "convince" you to have sex, he is pressuring you and that's not cool.
If this is eventually what you are going to do, a trip to a Doctor or Planned Parenthooed should be the first thing on your "to do" list. Get going on some birth control. Using a condom is a form of birth control, but again you have to be careful. They could rip, fall off, get lost, leak and breakdown with age.
Kirk is correct. If this guy is bugging you for sex...loose him. A gentleman will not pressure a lady. You are in control of when you may want to loose your virginity, not him.
If this is eventually what you are going to do, a trip to a Doctor or Planned Parenthooed should be the first thing on your "to do" list. Get going on some birth control. Using a condom is a form of birth control, but again you have to be careful. They could rip, fall off, get lost, leak and breakdown with age.
Kirk is correct. If this guy is bugging you for sex...loose him. A gentleman will not pressure a lady. You are in control of when you may want to loose your virginity, not him.
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i had same problem when i was studying my lover insisted that we are going to marry and its do not matter after we had it he used me for 1 year and left me and i was in no where to go.
after i have to give up for another my class fellow and we have relation till last and my parents had fixed my marriage now days i m worried about it.How should i behave at marriage night to like virgin other wise in our coustom my husband will give me divorce if he comes to know.
after i have to give up for another my class fellow and we have relation till last and my parents had fixed my marriage now days i m worried about it.How should i behave at marriage night to like virgin other wise in our coustom my husband will give me divorce if he comes to know.
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I strongly agree! Keeping yourself pure is a very good thing and if you're nervous to have intercourse and loose the virgin purity of your vagina don't give in, if he loves you he will wait , if not he doesn't deserve you he needs a s***
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