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Me And this Girl, Have Had Sex Atleast 3 Times. Shes Didnt Have Sex With Anyone Else While In A Relationship Wit Me ANd Vice Versa. How Did I Contract This STD???


Per the cdc in the us (google gonorrhea):

"Gonorrhea is spread through contact with the penis, vagina, mouth, or anus. Ejaculation does not have to occur for gonorrhea to be transmitted or acquired."

... so:

one or other of you has had contact with the penis, vagina, mouth or anus of someone with gonorrhea

At a stretch, the 'no sex, no lie' scenario means one of you has kissed someone with gonorrhea, since kissing is about the 'least sexual' contact that would fit the recognised means of transmission

And bear in mind, you could both be entirely faithful to each other, but unless you were both virgins in an absolute, never kissed, never did anything else sense, then all it took was a prior sexual contact with someone who had gonorrhea before the two of you got together.

Just because you feel clean doesn't mean you are clean, and by the time someone appreciates they may have an STD, they have typically infected a whole series of other people, depending on the extent of their contacts.

Someone who was HIV+ and never tested, and never developed full blown aids could in theory transmit the disease to hundreds (and by extension, thousands upon thousands of other people, depending on promiscuity) if they never noticed, never got tested.

That is precisely how and why 'contagious' diseases are so difficult to eradicate.

You just helped gonorrhea avoid extinction - nothing good, nothing bad, that's just what we are for, as far as diseases are concerned.