Ok, so I'm 15 and today I was going to have sex with my girlfriend. When she got over to my house I was home alone and we went straight to my room. When we got the we laid down and kissed, ALOT! The after a lil while we started touching... I took off her shirt (by now I have a boner) and then I took off her pants/underwear, she started playin wit me and I was hard as hell. I finger her for bout 10 minute (still hard by the way) and then I went to put the condom on and it juss went totally soft !! I was embarrased! So then I started to finger her again and she played wit me again and I could not get hard... how can I fix that???
It's just nerves. Please don't worry - it's very common. Well done on using a condom. Just take it easy - things will be fine. Just enjoy each others bodies and don't feel you have to rush into sex.
JB9900 is absolutely right. This is an extremely common situation and you have nothing to worry about. You were probably just a bit anxious and anxiety can get in the way of sex.
When you get too nervous, the release of stress hormones constricts peripheral circulation so that blood can get to your vital organs (heart, lungs) more rapidly. The penis is not a vital organ. In fact, the last thing you need when you're facing a stressful/dangerous situation (e.g. involved in a fight) is an erect penis! This is the infamous 'fight or flight response'.
Again, you're not sick and there's nothing wrong with you. Anxiety is a perfectly normal biological reaction. You just need to find ways to control it. Relax, try not to think about it and things will improve.
If condoms are a problem, simply ask you girlfriend to put them on you. Problem solved!
Good luck and keep us posted.
When you get too nervous, the release of stress hormones constricts peripheral circulation so that blood can get to your vital organs (heart, lungs) more rapidly. The penis is not a vital organ. In fact, the last thing you need when you're facing a stressful/dangerous situation (e.g. involved in a fight) is an erect penis! This is the infamous 'fight or flight response'.
Again, you're not sick and there's nothing wrong with you. Anxiety is a perfectly normal biological reaction. You just need to find ways to control it. Relax, try not to think about it and things will improve.
If condoms are a problem, simply ask you girlfriend to put them on you. Problem solved!
Good luck and keep us posted.
just start playing with yourself or get her to and you should become hard again-try to insert your penis anyway surly that will make you hard XD XD
Look up age of consent. It is illegal for you to even have sex under 16 anyway so its good that happened to you. Learn from it and wait till youre old enough.