Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 months now, but we've known each other for over a year; so we know each other pretty well. But, i can't seem to achieve orgasm if i dont do it myself! and i mean 'just myself'. i love my man wth all my heart, and i really enjoy the time that we spend together. But im worried that something is wrong with me. my boyfriend has no trouble climaxing, though it takes him a while, but i like it that way hehe :P but ive been masturbating since i was 9 and i wonder if this is whats causing my problems with not being able to climax during sexual intercourse. its upsetting me and i know it is my partner. we've tried everything but still nothing works. i trust my partner with all my heart, and i am very comfortable being with him. im just wondering if this is a physical problem? HELP!!! <3
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Believe it or not honey, about 10% of women have this problem. So it's alright.
People might say "relax" your body during sex to reach an orgasm but really, you should tense up a bit to stimulate your muscles. The only place in your whole body that should be relaxed is your brain, have that connection in your brain to your body to help you out:)
If that doesn't work, however, this could be a medical issue, no it's not that serious(it IS common) but if you feel it is medical...then visit your doctor and let them know what's going on.
Goodluck & Godbless<3
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