I'm straight but I think I'm bi-curious

Hi Fergs,

let me reassure you that it is very normal to think about all aspects of sex at your age, although you might not feel comfortable about it. That you are having fantasies about having oral sex with a girl doesn't necessarily mean you are a lesbian or bisexual, but it might. There can be a difference between what we want in our fantasies and what we want in reality. And that is OK. You don't need to make a decision about whether you are straight, lesbian, bisexual or otherwise at the moment. just enjoy your blossoming sexuality. Take things slowly, get educated about safer sex, sexual health etc, how to have positive relationships. It may be helpful to join a support group for young people who are gay. lesbian, bi etc. This could give you other people to talk to that are going through what you are. If there is nothing like that where you live is there a gay and lesbian support telephone service so that you can talk to someone. it doesn't mean you have to choose how you label yourself, although you do need to be aware that some people will expect you to. Although it might seem really urgent right now things will become clearer over time. I hope that helps. Take care

I'm sure you are straight. Everybody gets curious. It's human nature. You are still young and I experience something similar to what you're talking about. Girls take interest in why some girls grow tits at earlier ages than others and why sometimes younger girls have bigger breasts than some of the older girls. I experienced that when I was growing up. Already wearing a 38 size bra at age 9 when some 11 year olds were still flat chested.

A question. How long have you been wearing a bra? Hopefully for 5 years or longer. And what size are your tits? Hopefully larger than 44. Like at least a 46 or 48.