ok... my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 4 months now. he has not had sex in over a year and recently got these little red bumps on his penis and thighs. they do not itch and are not painful at all. they kind of look like pimples with no head. i have no bumps and have never had any or even any symptoms for that matter. could it be herpes? i have a doctors appointment in a week from today but he has no medical insurance and can not go to a doctor.