Is my hymen broken? My boyfriend rubbed my clit with his finger

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Guest over a year ago

Hi, I really need urgent help with this, if anyone can help ease my worries that would be deeply appreciated.

I made out with my boyfriend and it got a bit heated and he was basically only rubbing my clit but his finger roamed around down there for a bit and I was really lost in the heated moment but I don't think he slipped his finger inside, but still I'm worried my hymen is broken? I tried to take pictures to make sure it's intact and it kinda seemed like it is but with a small hole, but from internet searching it says that it's normal for the hymen to have a small hole to allow menstruation to flow, so is it broken or is it fine? is that small hole really a normal thing or does it mean I broke it? I really need help, it's really important in our culture to keep our hymen intact till marriage (it's what indicates my virginity) so it's extremely important for me to know, thank you in advance.

Luv2diddle over a year ago

Unless your boyfriend has fingers like the Incredible Hulk you are fine. How old are you? Haven't you ever fingered yourself or masturbated with objects? Everyone's hymen is different and a lot of girls break theirs by bicycling, sports, etc. I started masturbating with different things when I was thirteen and I'm pretty sure I broke my own hymen somewhere between thirteen and seventeen when I first had sex. My first time I experienced no blood or pain at all. You are a virgin until you have vaginal sex with a partner no matter what condition your hymen is in.