hi, have been reading, about some of the worries about pregancies, have just found out am pregant, i was on the pill having periods, everything, this is my second time i have been caught, first was my fault ofc, i took a break from the pill the first time , but this time i didnt , i have 2 children already age 12 and 14, my parnter have been with 3 yrs now, we dont have any children together, he as also got to of his own, we got a mortgage together 2 yrs ago, and we need to look for a remortgage in which were having no luck, and worrying about money issues, now i know am pregant aagain am having doubts that i dont want a abortion, i dont want to go through all that again , but am scared, cos i dont think my partner wants this, please can anyone give me any advice,
You said you "don't think your partner wants this" does he know your pregnant?
Seeing that your bc failed, you know this is not your fault.
The best thing for you to do at this time is sit down with your partner and tell him what's going on, this is partially his problem too. I wouldn't go behind his back and have it terminated. Give him the option of any in put that he may have.
This is a decision that the two of you need to make together. Who knows, he may be pleasantly surprised.
Seeing that your bc failed, you know this is not your fault.
The best thing for you to do at this time is sit down with your partner and tell him what's going on, this is partially his problem too. I wouldn't go behind his back and have it terminated. Give him the option of any in put that he may have.
This is a decision that the two of you need to make together. Who knows, he may be pleasantly surprised.