So on the 18th of april Ive had sex for the first time. We used a condom, it was correctly used and it DID NOT slip off or break. My last period was on april 12 and it ended on april 17. Today is may 12 (my periods usually come between 12 and 15) and I've been experiencing some normal pms symtomps like cramps and headaches like I always do. But still there is no blood today. Ive been stressing alot these days and ive read that stressing can delay your period. Could I be pregnant or am I just paranoid?
Loading...
Well, while there is always a chance of pregnancy once a woman becomes sexually active. I highly doubt it. Be aware of when you are ovulating. This is the time you can conceive. Most likely you are worrying and that is delaying things. Becoming sexual active is a normal and wonderful thing but if you are old enough to be having sex, you are old enough to take responsibility for your actions. Its def. time to look into birth control. Once you are on your birth control do NOT stop using condoms. A boy will tell you anything you want to hear in order to get the sex. Doesn't make him a bad person, just makes him a normal turned on boy. The thing is , he may not be using a condom with other girls and the chances of catching and STD are extremely high for you at this age. Chlamydia is something that is VERY COMMON and easy to catch. It can do some irreversible damage to your womanly parts that may even ruin your chances of having a healthy pregnancy one day. If that boy is not willing to rap it... then he can not tap it. Also, any good young man will be very cautious himself and will WANT TO rap it. So, if you meet a boy who is less than willing to use a condom. He s def. a high risk Boy. Now, A woman ovulates 2 weeks after her period. This is a time you are more likely to get pregnant. If you ever do get pregnant before you are ready. There is always adoption. There are so many that cant have children and would be great parents to the child. Some times it s almost a God send that a young girl does get pregnant because maybe that soul is meant to be here and go to a childless couple who cant conceive. That is just my opinion. I am anti abortion. The most important thing for you now is to take precautions and be a respectable and responsible young lady when it comes to sex. Remember sex is not love. If a boy want to have sex it sure has nothing to do with his heart. If a girl wants to have sex, they often confuse it with love. Boys and Girls are on a total different page when it comes to sex. So, here is my advise for you.
A) GET ON BIRTH CONTROL ASAP there are many options today of which kind is right for you talk it over with your OBGYN. and try to talk to your MOM .. she will be more helpful than you may think and she will be proud that you want to do this the right way.
B) NEVER HAVE SEX WITH OUT THE USE OF A CONDOM... there are way to many STDs just dying to infect you. This includes ORAL sex. you can get a yeast infection or herpes in your mouth. I def dont recommend you to give a boy oral sex. Save that for when you are older and CERTAIN you are in a monogamous and honest relationship.
C) DONT HAVE SEX IF ITS NOT WITH SOME ONE WHO IS YOUR STEADY BOYFRIEND. most likely you will just be called a s*** and w**** and quickly build a bad reputation you can do with out. :)
D) If you think you are pregnant. Tell some one. See a Doctor and try not to be scared. Adults were once kids and we totally understand. Its not the end of the world.
Good luck and welcome to the wonderful world of sex :
A) GET ON BIRTH CONTROL ASAP there are many options today of which kind is right for you talk it over with your OBGYN. and try to talk to your MOM .. she will be more helpful than you may think and she will be proud that you want to do this the right way.
B) NEVER HAVE SEX WITH OUT THE USE OF A CONDOM... there are way to many STDs just dying to infect you. This includes ORAL sex. you can get a yeast infection or herpes in your mouth. I def dont recommend you to give a boy oral sex. Save that for when you are older and CERTAIN you are in a monogamous and honest relationship.
C) DONT HAVE SEX IF ITS NOT WITH SOME ONE WHO IS YOUR STEADY BOYFRIEND. most likely you will just be called a s*** and w**** and quickly build a bad reputation you can do with out. :)
D) If you think you are pregnant. Tell some one. See a Doctor and try not to be scared. Adults were once kids and we totally understand. Its not the end of the world.
Good luck and welcome to the wonderful world of sex :
Loading...
He is my boyfriend of 6 months, we both wanted to have sex AND we USED A CONDOM. I wasnt ovulating when we did it. My ovulation happend aroud the 26th of April. We had sex on the 18th of april.We were both virgins when we did it. So what your saying is that the chances of me being pregnant or slim right?
I saw some blood in my pants about an hour ago but its not bleeding that much. Is that my period?
I saw some blood in my pants about an hour ago but its not bleeding that much. Is that my period?
Loading...