Every partner tells me the same thing "you're great at this."  I love giving pleasure and making my partner happy and seeing him really enjoy sex.  I get incredibly excited making out and having sex.  But I NEVER orgasm myself.  My partner always cums (I make sure of that), and often cums twice.  I stay hard for most of the encounter, but I become so fixated on making him happy, I totally neglect myself.  Truth is, I often go soft by the end of it while I am making him orgasm.  Even when the partner leaves, when most guys would probably rush to jerk off, I don't.  It's over, and the thrill of the "hunt" and making out is over.  I'm afraid that I have some addiction to "empty" sex or something.  I love orgasms, so why am I not having them??