Im only 15 and with my very loving, gently, sweet, and not to mention very well endowed boyfriend. Reading about you young, and even older woman is very comforting to me. I've been sexually active for about three months now, and sex is amazing for the first.. say.. ten to fifteen minutes before it starts to chafe and become painful for me. He's very kind and understanding with it, politely grabbing the trusty bottle of lube before we continue. The lube stings a little at first, then we can continue without pain for another fifteen or so minutes before it hurts again :-( i found that fluid intake helped and so did masturbation.. i haven't seen any doctors about this as.. well.. im underage and my parents cant find out now can they xP good luck to all you ladies! Thanks for helping!
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Yeast infections are very common cause of soreness after sex. You can either go see your gyno or dip a tampon into yogurt (NOT flavoured) and insert it. Works wonders!
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so me and my girlfriend are experiencing similar problems. the thing is weve only been going at it for around a month. i havent a big penis... just over 5 inches id say. fairly thick. we use plenty of lube and condoms but still after around 40 minutes to an hour of actual intercourse after foreplay, she gets sore and cant carry on, meaning i dont finish. its taking a toll on both of us a little bit, because she feels like shes doing something wrong and shes not i love it, so its upsetting us both and we both really would like an answer. if anyone could help we'd both be sooo grateful.
Thanks
so me and my girlfriend are experiencing similar problems. the thing is weve only been going at it for around a month. i havent a big penis... just over 5 inches id say. fairly thick. we use plenty of lube and condoms but still after around 40 minutes to an hour of actual intercourse after foreplay, she gets sore and cant carry on, meaning i dont finish. its taking a toll on both of us a little bit, because she feels like shes doing something wrong and shes not i love it, so its upsetting us both and we both really would like an answer. if anyone could help we'd both be sooo grateful.
Thanks
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it may not be from you being too large, it may be from so much arousal, and not enough fun. if that makes any sense to you. good luck and have fun.
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It's not only your fiance that's having that kind of problem. A lot of women are also suffering pain during intercourse. Read this post:***edited by moderator*** web addresses not allowed to help you understand why your fiance is experiencing this and to know what can be done with it.
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Its normal it depends how hard you two are going at it if its an everyday thing and you go hard all the time of course shes going to be sore its just like a really hard work out she can take a warm bath or shower and also give her time like 2 or 3 days....Sex everyday might be the problem too muscles get tired and the vagina is a muscle so just cut down on it
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I've been having the exact same problem, and I am SO glad that I'm not alone. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now and things have cooled off a little bit. Not because we're not attracted to one another, but because of this pain that I get. It hurts so much when we're done, and I have to urinate, it can burn a little. I have no rashes, just sheer soreness from sex. I'm afraid he is getting frustrated about it, and consequently this issue has been frustrating me. He won't say so, but I can tell.
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I have this same problem especially on the right side of my lower vagina. I believe it is from frequent sex without enough lube/stimulation. My partner and I had intercourse 4 times on Saturday and that night his penis was also sore and red, as was my vagina. I have seen my doctor and do not have any infections etc. Women need more stimulation than men, and need to 'work to' the end result. I believe constant stimulation and foreplay is the answer to your worries.
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This is a regular thing for me to. Mostly nothing helps, except for being very wet, but it ALWAYS burns afterwards. Pawpaw cream helps relieve the pain a fair bit. I dont use condoms, because i am allergic to condoms. (obviously use a contraceptive though) Im glad im not the only one with this problem, is alot more comforting.
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Wow, thank you to all who posted. I know that this will shock most of you. I am 27 and have just started having sex with my boyfriend and was beginning to think there was something wrong with me even though the gyn said i am fine. I guess this is just part of me having sexs. I love it though and him as well.
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For the girl that just started having sex.. I was 20 when I had sex with my husband for the first time. I was sore for more than a month and it took awhile before I got off. So don't worry about it. If you want to have a orgasm.Let him go down on you and once you got off than he can do his thing. Also each new position you try will hurt for awhile. Your body just has to get used to it. Plus just tell him to be gentle with you.
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Ask ur doctor for a estrogen cream it will help even if uryoung with the vaginal chafing dryness soreness
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She might have a slight yeast infection or a very sensitive hymen. though its broken the first time you have sex it could grow back partially. tell her to go see a gynecologist just in case
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My boyfriend and i have been having sex for over a year now, but the past about seven days or more we have done it every single day and now im starting to feel very sore down there, its not because im not wet because i still get very wet, any suggestions?
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I have this pain aswell i looked it up and i think it may be vaginismus ... Vaginismus is when the muscles around the vagina tighten involuntarily when penetration of the vagina is attempted. It makes sexual intercourse difficult or impossible (the vagina can completely close up) and it can be painful....
The condition is fairly common, especially from the late teens until the thirties. It is likely that many women will experience it at some point, even if they have had a history of enjoyable and painless sex.
the symptoms are:
difficult or impossible penetration of the vagina, because the muscles in the vagina have tightened,
burning or stinging pain and tightness of the vagina if penetrated by a tampon, finger or penis,
fear of pain,
intense fear of penetration and avoidance of sex, and
loss of sexual desire if penetration is attempted
Google vaginismus to see treatment hope this helps! x
The condition is fairly common, especially from the late teens until the thirties. It is likely that many women will experience it at some point, even if they have had a history of enjoyable and painless sex.
the symptoms are:
difficult or impossible penetration of the vagina, because the muscles in the vagina have tightened,
burning or stinging pain and tightness of the vagina if penetrated by a tampon, finger or penis,
fear of pain,
intense fear of penetration and avoidance of sex, and
loss of sexual desire if penetration is attempted
Google vaginismus to see treatment hope this helps! x
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