WOW this has been here for sometime huh? im a dude who has the same problem with my GF.. soreness/bleeding from the entry. WELL after being together for 2 years and its not getting better, sex has dwindled to 1 time every 2 weeks IF IM LUCKY!! i basically felt like House pondering this. then the other day as i was in the bath room i noticed at the base my penis about an inch up there is hair.. so i shaved it! crazy but i did.. when the GF came home i said call me crazy, i know we had sex 4 days ago but lets try this NOW!! bamo no pain!! she was amazed and we did it again 3 times that night NO PAIN!! next day we went 4 rounds.. well of course the hair growing back causes slight pain on me but im a guy, i will survive. everyday for 5 days sex sex sex sex untill the end of the 5th day.. the hair had grown back enough to cause her pain.. NOW i think ive figured this out, the hair being the only part of the male that is not smooth COULD INDEED cause this.. just saying.. now to find something that remove the hair, not burn like the dickens.. and make it NOT COME BACK >;) >;) >;) >;) >;) >;) >;) >;)
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it could be vulvar vestibulitis. Its where two very small glands on the lower part of the vagina are sensitive and become painful during sex or any type of chafing. She should go to the doctor and ask them specifically to check for this, they simply apply pressure to the area to see if she can feel it. if she can, then that is most likely what it is. It's really easy to treat and with treatment the pain is very little to none. good luck!
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Ok I also have a question, I haven't had sex for about a year, but my boyfriend has done everything else to me. (hope that doesn't sound too slutty) anyway... I was wondering if my lack of sex has something to do with it feels extremely sore in my abdomen where it usualy hurts during ur period.. and also kinda near my bum... during sex and afterwards. Is it because my boyfriend has quite a big penis.. and im not used to it or would something be seriously wrong? Anyone else had the same thing?
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I get the same but actually during sex. When my boyfriend goes inside of me it hurts at the very bottom when it's in deep. It never used to happen but it's been a continuous thing lately. Today, he pulled out and there was a bit of blood on him. I was thinking it might be cause we are sexually active all the time and barely miss a day without it. I am going to try not having sex for a while to see if that helps. If it doesn't ill be seeing my doctor to make sure it is nothing serious.
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Hey guys!
Here's a thought...
You are getting sore because you boyfriends circumcised penis is rubbing and chafing the inside of your vagina.
Please google: 'Sex as nature intended it' and see if it rings true.
SOLUTION: Have your partner resort his foreskin, or have sex with uncircumcised men.
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http://pastie.org/3724275
Endless quotes from women just like you. It is not you, it is circumcised state of your men.
Endless quotes from women just like you. It is not you, it is circumcised state of your men.
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What Sex with a Circumcised Man Does to a Woman
Without a foreskin and a smooth, wet glans to aid penetration, it feels a lot like being penetrated by a dry rubber dildo. When he starts thrusting, his penis scrapes methodically back-and-forth against the woman's urethra, introducing bacteria including e. Coli, which can be anything from uncomfortable, to excruciatingly painful. The sexual rhythm is "off" from what an uncircumcised man does, and a woman does with an object, to induce a G-spot orgasm. Afterward, the woman feels like she needs to pee REALLY BAD, because her sensitive urethra has been stripped of meatus and mucus, and severely abraided. After she pees, she still feels like she needs to pee REALLY BAD. She smiles and tries to pretend she enjoyed it -- because women are supposed to be really turned on and enjoy sex just as much as men today, right?
Twelve to 36 hours later, she feels like she needs to pee EXCRUTIATINGLY BADLY. When she sits on the potty, hardly anything comes out of her bladder except a teaspoon full of blood and pus. She has a UTI (urinary tract infection), which our medical establishment says is quite Normal in women. (How come women in Europe, South America, and Asia never get them?) "A woman gets a bladder infection every time she has sex, and this is normal because women's ureters are �too short,'" chirps the Hack. Seventy percent of American women get bladder infections from intercourse. Fifteen percent of American women have had so many bladder infections from having intercourse, that the lining of their bladder is dead. Absent. They feel like they need to pee EXCRUTIATINGLY BADLY 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. "I need to pee," becomes a chant in your ear. Car trips become impossible, there are so many pit stops. And this is "normal" says the medical establishment. It's a disease that very few women ever recover from: It's called Interstitial Cystitis (or "urethritis" or "female complaints"). It causes premature aging (as waste products seep back into the body through the bladder). It causes extreme stress. It causes HATRED OF MEN and THEIR DAMN SELFISH SEX DRIVE THAT HURTS ME LIKE HELL.
Without a foreskin and a smooth, wet glans to aid penetration, it feels a lot like being penetrated by a dry rubber dildo. When he starts thrusting, his penis scrapes methodically back-and-forth against the woman's urethra, introducing bacteria including e. Coli, which can be anything from uncomfortable, to excruciatingly painful. The sexual rhythm is "off" from what an uncircumcised man does, and a woman does with an object, to induce a G-spot orgasm. Afterward, the woman feels like she needs to pee REALLY BAD, because her sensitive urethra has been stripped of meatus and mucus, and severely abraided. After she pees, she still feels like she needs to pee REALLY BAD. She smiles and tries to pretend she enjoyed it -- because women are supposed to be really turned on and enjoy sex just as much as men today, right?
Twelve to 36 hours later, she feels like she needs to pee EXCRUTIATINGLY BADLY. When she sits on the potty, hardly anything comes out of her bladder except a teaspoon full of blood and pus. She has a UTI (urinary tract infection), which our medical establishment says is quite Normal in women. (How come women in Europe, South America, and Asia never get them?) "A woman gets a bladder infection every time she has sex, and this is normal because women's ureters are �too short,'" chirps the Hack. Seventy percent of American women get bladder infections from intercourse. Fifteen percent of American women have had so many bladder infections from having intercourse, that the lining of their bladder is dead. Absent. They feel like they need to pee EXCRUTIATINGLY BADLY 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. "I need to pee," becomes a chant in your ear. Car trips become impossible, there are so many pit stops. And this is "normal" says the medical establishment. It's a disease that very few women ever recover from: It's called Interstitial Cystitis (or "urethritis" or "female complaints"). It causes premature aging (as waste products seep back into the body through the bladder). It causes extreme stress. It causes HATRED OF MEN and THEIR DAMN SELFISH SEX DRIVE THAT HURTS ME LIKE HELL.
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Here is a little trick that gets me to that tingling numbing orgasm: Do the fore play to lube and arouse, then ride on top of him leaning more forward to stimulate your clit. The next part is the best... as your riding him have him slowly sit up cupping, massaging your bottom, and nibbling on your nipples alternating. All five sexual touch points are fully stimulated and it feels like heaven!!! the first time we stumbled on this trick I had my first quadruple orgasm, yup I came 4 time with that one move!!!! My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 and a half years and this position still excites me every time we choose to do it.
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I just read through this whole thread because the first poster's girlfriend is experiencing the same thing I am, but of the string of replies, only one (the 22-year-old experiencing the same problem) seems to understand what's going on. It's not an overall vaginal soreness (which I, too, get sometimes after particularly lengthy or rough sex), but a specific pain (it feels like a tear or a cut, sort of? but there's nothing there) at the bottom/back of the vagina, like the exact opposite of the clitoris (not deep inside, right at the opening.)
It isn't a matter of lubrication, or foreplay, or relaxing (all of which have helped the regular kind of soreness, but not the weird...back-of-vagina soreness). If anyone has an answer that would ACTUALLY help those of us with this problem, that would be stupendous.
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I hav the same problem. It feels very raw, tender and Burns alot. It doesnt hurt that much if u do doggy. It will burn when he enters but then the soreness goed away.u shud try laying on ur stomach with ur partner above u.
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I just had sex with my boyfriend, for the first time.... my vagina isnt sore or anything, but my waist, thighs and back are very sore. I dont know if this is normal, or if i had done something other then sex that made me sore?
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That's really cute, but I hope no one considered it, because it's plain wrong. God doesn't go around making people's sex bad because they're not married. That's just ridiculous. If he actually did something in the world, he'd be way more busy stopping war or something.
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lmao, see iI can prove you wrong, iI had sex alot before iI got married, never had pain, now after being married for 2 years i've just now started having pain, so explain that one to me smart one
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perfectly normal. you're using muscles that you do not normally use. you're in new positions and making new movements. just an exercise thing. stretch after?
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perfectly normal. you're using muscles that you do not normally use. you're in new positions and making new movements. just an exercise thing. stretch after?
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