I still have healthy sexual desires but 2 months ago I had extensive iguinal hernia surgery and mesh was added to strengthen my stomach wall.  I can still feel the mesh in there especailly when I try to make love to my wife, the worst thing is that she feels it and when we begin to thrust it hurts her.  At that point the effect is lost and the session is over.  This is very frustrating to both of us.  What can we do?