My boyfriend has small penis

You just need to learn how to finger a girl and make her cum or learn to be a beast at eatin her out. You make her cum, wether its with your member or not, then she will answer your call.

What is the one thing that you do when decide to " make " it work and go all in. It's confidence. For instance, I'm a server at Outback Steakhouse and I was having problems with a customer that made me not want to be a server anymore. I picked my head up and I said " just do my job and do it right because your one of their best servers ". When you and your BF are turned on then jump right in. Dont even give yourself time to think about his size. Grab his hand and make him start playing with you. get into it. have him play with that spot while he kisses your neck, chest, collarbone, back, inside of thigh. Then he will really get into it and gain confidence in his self and then he will show you his true potential without hesitating because of his size and you will see that it really doesn't matter much.

I don't your BF's exact dimensions....my own penis is a little smaller than average and to be honest I've always been uptight about it even though it never seemed to matter to any of the women I've been with..



Let's face it, our culture places a premium on size.



My suggestion.....just break up with the guy. Face reality.....his size is a turn off for you, you need a bigger one than he can give. And he's gonna know how you feel if he doesn't already. Why make him miserable?



No doubt there are lots of women out there who will be happy with this guy, he will sense their happiness/satisfaction and be happy too. Don't stand in the way of this....heck, you could even introduce him to one of friends who don't share your size requirements.



Breakup. Find a reason besides the real one. Otherwise you'll both be miserable. I know I wouldn't ever want to be in a relationship with a women who was less than happy with my dong.

you should get used being with him for a while before you decide anything about that matter .

Hi, 

I am 31, i have 1 1/2 inch soft and 3 1/2 hard, i am worried coz my size....

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Yes, you should.

just get with me lol

I agree with you, my fiancée always gets upset because I worry about my size too much she's like "lol baby your silly, I love you for you not penis size. I'm not able to walk so she has to be on top (best position for small guys like myself) Props for not being like other gals

My boyfriends small penis...Its just killing me! I am very sexual, we have tried every position, I make sure he is happily pleased, but I feel like I'm messing around with an 11 year old. I love to be intimate with him but there are times I just want to throw him off of me and get the job done myself. I know Im sounding immature, this is by far not my personality...I do believe that there is so much more to relationships. It is a living shame because everything else is great about him, but sadly I feel it is a sign of weakness to be so frail and puny. Do I just break it off? Shame on me...please help me process!

My penis is 1inch when erect, is it small? 

Size matters, point-blank-period. I hate that females act as if it doesn't to spare a guy's ego. W.e Women have sexual needs as well, and they shouldn't be ignored. I swear the men sound like they only care about themselves. Now the size a woman likes is up to her. I like something 6.5-8 with a great girth!(but thats not all women) but guy's can't be mad at female for what they like. And to everyone comparing breast size to penis size....Hey if a guy doesn't like the size of my breast ~shrug~ wouldn't hurt my feelings. I say break up with him if he can't sexually satisfy you. Do what makes you happy! I've told a guy he was small.....and that was that.  Sex is an important aspect of a relationship as well as everything else. Why should the guy be the only one satisfied?

I'm not going to pretend like I am some sort of expert on the topic. But I think it's different for different girls. Some girls like a large penis, some girls don't necessarily look for that. I am by no means, large. I would even say that I am on the small side. I have been with around 30 girls, some of them very hot , and most of the time, they came back for seconds and thirds and whatever. I've had a lot of beneficial friendships. I really don't think size matters that much, to be honest. One of the girls used to date one of my good friends (he knows that we hooked up, and he's cool with it, in case you wondered). And she said he has a pretty big penis, but I made her get off like he never did. I've been in 4 serious relationships and I could have married all 4 of them (commitment issues). I guess I'm just saying, I don't think you should dwell on it. I don't want this to sound bad, but, I've been with a few girls that have been around. Like, I know they've seen their fare share of penises. And after we had sex, they wanted to be a couple. Even a girl, that only dated black guys. So I don't think that size matters to all of them. I'm somewhere between 4.5 and 5 inches, I'm guessing. And not very girthy at all. You can get a girl off with your finger though, you know what I mean? You could have 8 inches or 4 inches, as long as you know what you are doing. Just treat girls right, be yourself and make sure you are tuned into their needs in bed. Nobody's perfect. Do what you want in this life that will make you happy. If a girl doesn't want to be with you because of your penis size, then her loss. There's like a 10 billion girls on this planet and a lot of them are nice girls, who just want a nice guy that can make them happy. 

Maybe he doesn't have a small instrument.... Maybe he is playing inside carnegey hall.....

I feel awful for this.... But yes please..

Overtly im the classic 'guys want to be me, girls want to be with me'...however.......for over twenty years its been the biggest issue in my life which has had positive and negative impacts on who i am.  im 5' and thinner hard and always knew i was smaller.  Uber confident when i was 17 i met a girl who said she wished i was bigger and basically went through the motions. IT DESTROYED ME!!!  for the next ten years i had probably 40/50 'naked sessions' with women but only got erect on a handful of occasions.  Im an intelligent guy, women (including wives friend, strangers etc) offer me no strings and im tempted just to boost my confidence.  I find i like to talk the women into bed but then pull out at the last minute, makes me feel like the lowest form of human being onsidering i have an amazin understanding wife and a young son yet why do i risk losing her to boost my confidence with a cheap tryst??? 

The positives however i believe are that im very good looking, am extremely confident in every other aspect of life and have a natural great physique YET have no real confidence.  I therefore am very humble and thoughtful about other people (in and out of bed).  I like to think that if i wasborn with the 'whole' package i would probably have been a total jerk.  In bed i am a 'giver', last ages until she has come and nothing is too much trouble.  My wife says it does not matter and although i fuly believe all the aforementioned about size no mattering in the long term - why has this moulded my life this way??

Another thing is that from a attractive point of view i view women on a completely independent basis.  I dont care about looks, bodyshape or bedroom skills, i get around purely thinking of exploring new places.  I know i sound extremely shallow myself especially about messing about but also i have never made a move myself i always let women do the chasing.  I also get more turned on having 'sex talk' especially with 'too close to home' ladies who open up andwe talk about every thing we would do to each other but not have sex yet i treat my wife like a princess and find it hard to talk dirty?  HEEELLLPPP - any comments negative or positive greatly welcomed!