My boyfriend is frigid, whereas I'm not

Quite long, please read! After having a very physical relationship for the first time and ending up losing my virginity etc, I became single for a whole year. My current boyfriend was a great excitement for me because not only did I feel like I'd found someone to share my life with, I felt like I could finally release some of the pent up sexual frustration I had. After all, a year with no sexual contact with another human being after a very physical relationship makes a girl go crazy (ladies you agree?). He's taken things extremely slow, and I respect that. But we've been dating almost two months and haven't even made out properly with tongue or anything. Kissing was my weakness in the sense that I always wanted it and wouldn't stop when I started, so basically all of this closed-mouth kissing is like waving a steak in front of a bear and telling it not to take it. I'm losing my mind! He refuses to talk about any of his sexual past, which contributes to my theory that he's either a) a virgin, though there is nothing wrong with that; b) absolutely terrified of messing it up; c) stone-cold frigid. What can I do to help loosen him up? To help him talk to me more about these things? Or even to help him make the first move with taking things a step further?