Me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year. He threw our complete future away on cocaine and pills. He told me he would go to rehab but he still hasn't gone I do believe he really does want to stop useong drugs but he's lied to me so many times how can I believe him again?
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Hi BZBS,
You don't believe him. Not until he HAS COMPLETED rehab. Not just gone, but COMPLETED. You don't have a boyfriend right now. The drugs own him, not you.
Tough love might work. Leave him until he gets help. You can't help him, he can only do it on his own.
If he doesn't seek treatment then move on without him. Don't waste your life and future waiting for him to make up his mind.
I know this sounds harsh, I've dealt with this on a personal basis. The addict has to want help before they can recover. You can't force it.
Good luck.
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