my friends raped me

? ? ? ? ? ? Are you for real?is it safe to see them? well one thing how old are you? and did you like it? if you did you were not raped and if you didnt like it you should have called the police... YOU like the guys, are you brain washed? ? ? ? ? ? ?


Now that I let loose, No hun it is not okay or safe to see them....

I'm 19 and most of the time theyre normal if there ar other girls there with me but that time it was just me and the guys.

Go to the police. It's still assault if they have sex with you without your consent.
You should NOT see them. That is not cool of them to do. Real friends would NOT do that to you.

It doesn't even matter if you liked it. If they were holding you down, and if it was unrequested, it was definitely the r-word. In fact, this was the gang version. You need to call a sexual assault hotline or go to someone you trust and tell them what happened. These guys could easily do the same thing to another girl and ruin her for life. They had no right to do what they did, and they are NOT friends! If you hang out with them again, I bet they will try the same thing, except this time they will try to talk you into it so that you end up blaming yourself instead of blaming them. In fact, if you talk to any of them, they will probably try to talk you out of telling on them, and they will tell you it was just fun and you liked it, blah blah blah. Whatever they say, it's just a line to keep them from getting into trouble and keep you from telling on them. They will put up such an act, but don't you dare fall for it! It was a very serious sexual assault! Don't let them try to convince you otherwise.

Someday you are going to have to tell a guy friend about what happened. I promise you, if he is a good guy, he will get so angry at them that he will want to rip their heads off. And that kind of anger is a good thing for you to see! It might even help you.

Lots of girls out there have had horrible things happen to them. You're not alone at all, and a decent guy will defend you from these types of creeps. You have every right to be angry about what they did, because it was so unspeakably wrong! It was exactly the opposite of what a man is supposed to do for a woman. Men are supposed to DEFEND you from creeps, not BE creeps! Google RAINN or Pandora's Project to get some more info about recovery and what to do now. Get yourself some pepper spray (I got mine at the army supply store - it's called Sabre, and it's what the NYPD uses.) and don't be afraid to use it on these jerks. They are the OPPOSITE of friends! All the best, hon, you deserve better!

the guys all have a criminal record on the sex offender list now cause i turned them in i moved out of my parents house to go to college so we dont live in the same area anymore and the police advised me to block their numbers which i did

HELL NO it aint safe for them to be around you.. I am 19 and I wouldn't allow that sh*t.. you need to go to the police.. Don't be scared.. I had a friend get raped and having the police on ur side is a good thing... And if they did it ones they will do it again... ig you like having sex get a boyfriend and be comitted to him and have protected safe sex with him!!!

Hi, I know that it can seem kind of confusing when someone who is supposed to be on your side does something that makes you feel unsure of yourself. When it is sexual, it is even more confusing. I am sorry that you had to go through this, and I know that by turning these people in, you are most likely going to make a lot of enemy's. (Not just the guys) But, maybe, by you turning them in, they will stop to think next time they are trying to be the alpha males of the group. Just because woman are weak, doesn't mean it is okay to hurt them. They should be in prison for what they did to you. Most likely they will not be, because you didn't go to a hospital, and there is no physical evidence. They will most likely get a sexual misconduct charge, and be sent on their way. It is disheartening to hear this, but, this is probably what will happen. I would stay far away from them, and if your girl friends are your true friends they will stick by you, and believe you, and they will hopefully never be put into a position like the one that you were forced into. People today are strange, some of them are just sick, and if you find, and have one true friend in this whole world you are a lucky person. I hope this helps a little, please know that life goes on, and this is just something that you have to put behind you. (don't forget, just move forward)