I have been living with my girl friend for six months. She's 26 and I'm 21. I love her very much. About three years ago, she had an abortion. Before i started dating her she had been trying to have a baby for almost a year and get back the child she lost. I dont have the ability to give her a child. This causes trouble at home. She gets really upset when we talk about kids and has cheated on me twice because she wants to have a child so badly. She said she would stop. But i just dont know. I want to help her feel better. But i dont want her to get pregnant with out me there. I am at a loss and i would love other peoples input. I dont want to leave her, i love her. But i don't know how to help.
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Aw..i feel so bad for you both. Sometimes that maternal instinct is so strong that it becomes unbearable and causes great sadness. The inability to produce a child has caused many a problem in many relationships for sure.
I know this is costly, but what about invitro fertilization?
Another suggestion is look into a sperm bank. Sperm is actually stored after obtained from anonymous doners for folks like you. You can almost pick and choose what type of dad you want and try to match his looks as close to yours as possible.
Once you have chosen a specimin, she would be artificialy inseminated and you could be there.
I don't know the cost but i wouldn't want to see her cheat on you again just for the purpose of having a baby.
I know this is costly, but what about invitro fertilization?
Another suggestion is look into a sperm bank. Sperm is actually stored after obtained from anonymous doners for folks like you. You can almost pick and choose what type of dad you want and try to match his looks as close to yours as possible.
Once you have chosen a specimin, she would be artificialy inseminated and you could be there.
I don't know the cost but i wouldn't want to see her cheat on you again just for the purpose of having a baby.
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