My girlfriend is Bi should I be worried?

Short of quoting the often cited line about "set a bird free...if it returns to you, you'll know it's really yours..."

I'm not sure what else to tell you.
Many people are a blend of sexual impulses.
It's how we deal with these that defines who we are.

Sexuality is a continuum. Your gf may be a little more to one side than you would like. You may be a little more to the other. The fact that you both can relate to each other is great! Don't worry about it, but rejoice that she likes you so much.

I wouldn't keep picking at this scab, unless it's a deal breaker for you.
Then, you should tell her that. It may be the end of the relationship.
But, I'm betting not. If she loves you, and you're open enough to talk about it all, I think you're a pretty neat couple.

Don't you?

Hi, i have just found out that my gf is BI aswell and i dont know what to do my emotions are all mixed up but like you i still love her...
I also feel insecure because i am constantly worrying and wondering whether she wants to be exploring and trying new things with other girls...... I feel so ill because i love her with all my heart.......

You both need to realize that your girlfriends have trusted you a lot with their innermost feelings. That should count for something.

The fact that both these women are attracted to other females does not lessen their affection for you. In fact, you should feel honored that they chose not only to share this with you, but that they choose you over their other attractions.

Far from being worried, I would rejoice that you have found someone with whom you can be so open, so honest. And, as your gf has said that she has never acted upon her attraction to women, I would tend to trust her. She has told you about it, but also said it isn't her primary interest. You are.

Rejoice in that.

Don't dwell on the possibility of something else in her life or I guarentee that you will wreck your current relationship. Let it go. Talk about only if she brings it up, or if it is impossible for you to put asside. In that case, it is YOUR feelings that are dooming the relationship. Not hers.

Good luck both of you.

my ex was bi lol it is ok, let her explore tht side but tlk to her first n set limits on what u r comfortable with her doing. i did tht n the relationship worked fine, beside who wouldnt wanna have a three way with two girls? haha sry bout tht but its fun sometimes. reply to me please i want to know how you feel about this

Try not to worry so much. If you still feel as if you are holding her back well every now and then try a threesome choose someone together and enjoy your special moment together.

my gf told me she is bi, however i don't see any problem with this the thought of her and other girl makes me hot, i told her that as long as i know who , what and when she is doing anything that i will have no problem. i have the thought that she will let me watch her and maybe we can end up having a threesome which i think would be good, she mentioned that she had already been with one girl only.. and that although she feel sexual attraction to other females that she will never have nothing serious with a girl, my only real concern is that after all I'm only thinking about the situation i wonder if after everything is been said and done if i will keep my cool head about it, i don't know also I'm scared that maybe she will develop feelings for females, since she doesn't have a lot of experience maybe she don't know even know the extend of her attraction,  another issue is that she may only start to get turned on with females once she is starts doing other girls, and that she will stop getting excited cus of me, as of now our sex life pretty much sucks she hardly ever is in the mood, she don't like sex she says even when we doing it, she is jus never interested in sex very rarely she says i want to maybe once every two months, she also says that she has been like that with her part 3 ex boyfriends that she is just not that into sex by the way she is asian i am spanish i turned on by nature . many times even when having sex i see she doesn't get in the mood i tell her damn is so hard to please a lesbian just cuz i get the crazy idea that it may be cus she is bi, and she doesn't make a big issue with that she tries but she is never into sex only few times in two years i actually seen her get her freak on id may say..     she says she can't concentrate with me cus she doesn't want to get prego as she already got one time before and we had to abort it, and she is not doing that for a second time. before the abortion she was more open to sex i may add..

I DONT THANK YOU SHOULD BE WORRIED AT ALL BECAUSE LONG SHE NOT CHEATIN ON YOU WITH ANOTHER GUY YHU REALLY HAVE NUN TO WORRIE ABOUT IM BI AN MY BOYFRAND DOSNT CARE AT ALL HE JUST WORRIE ABOUT THE DUDES CAUSE IM PRETTY AN HAVE A BIGG BOOTY BHUT I HAVE SEXUAL THOTS WITH GIRLS BHUT I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND AN HES MY WORLD

I'm Bi and I feel like if my boyfriend down for a 3 sum then yeah but if you expect the fact that she might date anther girl just make sure your the only one out of u too that she truly loves if she loves you

My girlfriend used to be (or may still be bi) and has ex boyfriends which i dont worry about, but she has one ex girlfriend that she hangs out with, they dont talk about it anymore but they act like really good friends (backrubs ect...) should i be careful around her? (her ex gf doesnt know about me knowing about their previous relationship)

it ain't good for you unless her friend is into you. watch out

I'm having similar issues with this girl I'm seeing. She keeps talking about other girls as if they're hot. It's like hanging out with a male friend, boasting and bragging about banging the hottest chick. I don't do that c**p with my male friends. Why would I ever want to do that with my girlfriend?

I wonder if it has something to do with inadequacy. I mean, this girls said to me that she could never get serious with a girl. But, women know what women like.

Do women realize that maybe, if they actually opened their mouths and told guys what they like and how they like it, there might not be an issue here??

Moreover, how am I supposed to feel when I ask her what she finds attractive about a guy and she tells me that it's only my penis that's attractive?? She says that she likes women for all the same reasons I do. BUT, she won't tell me that she likes a guy for his muscles, hair, facial features, roughness, dominance, etc??

I guess I am self-conscious about these things. But, since the beginning of time, men have always been trying to make the best impression to hook a mate. I'm exercising my ass off now. I've been fat all my life and I really want to know what it feels like to be thin or athletic for the first time. The way she acts, this girl I'm seeing won't be giving me any kind of support. It's not looks, it's personality that women love right.

 

That's why so many women are dating men shorter than are. Riiight.

I know this is an old thread but I've just found that my girlfriend is bi. She says she isnt, she just likes for women to give her oral but that is bisexuality and she's told me she is attracted to women. She says she just get the urge to sleep with women. I don't know what to do, I've forgiven/overlooked everything she has done in the past but this I think is the straw that broke the camels back. What if she gets this "urge" while we are a couple. I can't compete with that, she's probably already cheated on me with another women before. Ive loved her since I was 16 and 8yrs later we are finally back together, she claims she loves me but how can she? She likes to bang other women.

Yep like any other guy i am going to say it i got the most amazing girlfriend in the world. Everyone says we are a cute couple and all but she just broke it to me shes bi and her ex was a girl.

I love this girl she is my first and lets hope only gf i will have. I guess i am indiffrent about her being bi because i know she pick me out of all people... the smart weird one that nobody ever talked to that much. I am just glad I have her in my life because I am a junor in high school and my parents are divorcing and she has been by my side (even if it gets her grounded) and she listens to me.

What my point is is that I guess be lucky because insteed of just having one-half of the population you have everyone to be up against and she picked you! It makes me feel kinda special.

My girlfriends bi, not complaning just wanted to brag