i just tried for the first time, it hurts very very very much and we had to stop when hes entering me halfway
like seriously this morning me n my bf tried having sex and like wen his tip was going in it hurt really bad and i am a virgin
OMG,,, Am 21 and a virgin and I plan on having sex next month with the man I love... he's trying his best to make it perfect no worries no pressure, Its all me I want to do it with him.. but am scared it will hurt and i don't want to ruin out 1st night together.... help :(
he says its not a problem if it dosn't happen we have the rest of our life for it to happen.. but i really want to have sex with him on that specific night, reading all these comments am freaking myself out more....... i think am going to need a whole lot of alcohol... lol
he says its not a problem if it dosn't happen we have the rest of our life for it to happen.. but i really want to have sex with him on that specific night, reading all these comments am freaking myself out more....... i think am going to need a whole lot of alcohol... lol
Since it is the first time you indulge in the Sex act, you should not do without fore play, such as fondling her breast , and then slowly sucking her erect Nipple. I do not know whether you have done this. You should have aplined Johnson' baby oil in her Vaginal area and also in your Penis.
You should have rubbed her Clitoris for some timeI if you have done like this the penetration will be sumouth because of the Lubrication.
Next time when you do this do it as mentioned above you will get a pleasurable sensation.
You should have rubbed her Clitoris for some timeI if you have done like this the penetration will be sumouth because of the Lubrication.
Next time when you do this do it as mentioned above you will get a pleasurable sensation.
Is she sexually fully aroused? Is she well lubricated? Is she anxious?
Do you engage in a lot of foreplay and oral sex? Are things rushed?
These are some/many of the things that need to be considered.
Girls need time to warm up and have the necessary natural lubrication to allow sexual penetration by her man.
You could try and use KY gel as lube to reduce the discomfort when penetrating your partner.
Try some lube. Works wonders
agreed, plenty of forplay, clitoral stimulation and use of Lube to penetrate. Simple principles that work!