HI, I AM 34 AND MY HUSBAND WAS THE FIRST REAL BF OF ME. I KNOW MY HUSBAND FROM 9 YEARS AGO. SINCE 5 YEARS AGO, HE IS NOT INTERESTED IN HAVING SEX WITH ME, WE HAVE SEX 3-4 TIMES AT YEAR AND I AM FEELING SO BAD.I NOTICED THAT HE LIKES TO MASTERBUTE ALONE, ESPECIALLY AT NIGHTS. HE REFUSES THAT HE DOES THIS A ND DOES NOT WANT TO TALK TO ANY CONSULTANT. PLEASE HELP ME WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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Hi Rina,
Masturbation is not the problem here. I can understand you not liking him masturbating but it is a normal activity, even for a married male. Masturbation is typically an alone activity. He likely does it just to get a release.
What is not normal is why doesn't he want to have sex with you.
I'd suggest a marriage counselor.
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Thank you for yr reply. you are right. Is that OK that I go to marriage counselor alone? I mean, I hope it helps me. Actually he pretends that everything between us is normal and he does not accept to go any counselor.
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Hi,
Yes, you can go by yourself. Hopefully he'll want to go but at least you can talk to someone.
Give it a try.
Good luck.
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Medic-Dan has given you excellent advice.
Although your husband may think there is nothing wrong, the fact that YOU are dissastified indicates there IS a problem.
And yes, even if you go alone at first, you need to speak with a professional.
I agree, that the masturbation is not the root of the problem. It appears that it is enough to satisfy your husband, but it obviously is not enough to satisfy you. That means there are issues to be dealt with.
Good luck. Continue to ask him to go with you, but go yourself.
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hi iuse to masterbute since 10 years if anyproblem in future ? i m trying the live these habit.when my errication strong then i can"t controll....kindly give the reply....
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