My Husband's Withdrawal From Marijuana Is HUGE!

Absolutely NO KIDDING!! You Colin are a sexist pig as far as I am concerned. Are you serious? Offer sex in leu of drugs? What kind of idiots do you think women are that we have to go THAT low and reduce ourselves to basically sex slaves JUST to appease our husband's to NOT do something they shouldn't be doing in the first place!! IF I have to do that..I'm leaving. Colin..crawl back under your rock please.

Reward him with sex for not smoking weed?
Yeah... if that's the solution I'm out. It's not my job to give myself to an abuser because they decided to quit a substance.
You're basically setting them up for sex addiction... if this is literally what you think is best.
Withdraw or not, aggressive and irratic behavior over time is abusive and hurts the partner.
You should see a couples therapist, this is not the answer.

I found this too with my partner of 3 years.
We bought a home and decided to start a family so he made the decision to quite to be better prepared to create a healthy child.
He's been mean as hell, I almost can't say ANYTHING without some snide comment.
I don't even know what to do, we are about to move across country to the house we bought to start out new lives together and start to try for a child.... and all I want to do is RUN.
I just want to cry while I type this..