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hi,im 12 yearold girl andmy 9 year old sister wants to no about masterbating whatshould i do i also have a 10 year old brother what shouldi do if he ask's me about masterbation

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This is really a tricky one. I think my personal answer depends on if you are a boy or a girl actually.

If she came to you I think I would give her a pretty basic answer at this point. It may be awkward - but maybe asking your parents for their advice is the right thing to do. Did they talk about this with you?

I would probably be ok with you answering her questions - but not really volunteering much beyond that. 9 is pretty young - and at 12 you don't really have all that much experience yourself...and again you being a boy or a girl would even weigh more into my decision and advice given your ages.
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Oops - I see now that your post said you were a girl! Sorry about that! Your answers can only depend on how much personal experience you have - so consulting with your parents may be the best bet.

As for your brother...I doubt you have real life experience with male masturbation - so while you could give him very simple answers...I think the best bet for him is to direct him to your parents.

Good luck!
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can some body help me she wants me to shw her how to and my brther asked me about naster bation
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I stick with what I said before...if you were a little closer in ages I would probably actually say to go ahead and show her as long as you were BOTH very comfortable - but there is a REALLY big age difference here where I don't think it would be appropriate.

As for your brother...what would you tell him? Do you even understand yourself how a boy masturbates - and what is involved? Trust me - if he wanted to do it he would quickly figure it out himself. And if not - he needs to talk to someone who understand what he is feeling, and how it all works for a boy...

Finally - why do they both have this curiosity of masturbation? I feel like even though MANY kids their age actually do masturbate - they are both a little young to be asking their 12 year old sister such detailed questions...and especially for a demonstration.

I think your best - and safest - solution is to direct both of them to your parents...or talk to your parents yourself and see what they want you to do!
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I was just wondering.
How come the two of them are asking you, all of a sudden?
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id send themto my parents but our momis um married w rarely see our father and our mom is a drunk
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njoynlife wrote:

I was just wondering.
How come the two of them are asking you, all of a sudden?


i was masterbating and i thaught they were a sleep and she walked in on me im assumeing my brother either he heard it from my sister our 1 of his friends

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Try to start with your mom...I do think that is your best bet. If you don't get any results...is there another adult you can trust in your lives? I think you are ok to probably talk with your sister about masturbation - but keep your talk appropriate for her age and understanding. I don't think I would show her though because of the age difference.

As far as your brother...again...I don't know how effective of a talk you could have with him at your age. YOU would have to very much understand what a boy feels and does to be able to have that talk...and I can't imagine that is the case for you.

Good luck to you and your family! It is nice that your little brother and sister know they have you to come to!
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she wipped the butt with a leathe belt when they asked her now what
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i would say you should jack him off once just to show him snd maybe finger her once and give them both an orgasm maybe a the same time or in the same room i mean t cant hurt
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please helpits getting worse and my mom whiped there butt's when they asked her about masterbating and then she asked where they herd about it they sed my then i gotmy but whiped PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!
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If you're being serious then you have to talk to a trusted adult about what is going on tomorrow. A teacher or advisor at school would be a good choice. Good luck there!
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Im to embarresed to ask a teacher
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I'm not saying to ask a teacher actually - I am saying to tell a teacher about you and your sister and brother being "whipped" because you asked a question. That is not an appropriate response - and you should not have to be afraid to ask your parents questions!
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