I'm really nervous i may have herpes. I think I may have contracted it from a guy i have unprotected oral sex with and unprotected intercource with. At first my anus started to itch extremely bad at the time i had no bumps or anything so i thought i was because of the hot temperatures and me walking all the time. Then maybe a week or two later i felt a bump near my anus on the left side of my butt cheek. It still itches and is starting to become more sensitive. It dont affect how i walk or anything, i dont have any pain, headaches, or fever. But the more i think about it the more i think i have this STD he always had cole sores but he didnt have and OB when we had sex and he performed oral sex on my penis and i dont have any bumps on my penis (yes we are gay). I looked in the mirror and i didnt see anything though it was hard to see back there i am in the army and we are now deployed so it will be very hard for me to go to a doctor about this until in two weeks when i return home. I should have been more responsible. Can anyone help me please!!! i also had oral herpes even before i was sexually active and my dr told me all people have HSV1 it just differnt on different people. HELP ME PLEASE! i think my love/sex life is over!